Post number #309612, ID: b2e5f6
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For a few months now my girlfriend has been constantly busy because of school and commission drawings, meaning on weekends she'd have to draw and do homework. While I'm completely free of all that stuff because summer has already started for me (we're in a long distant relationship), and because of that I can't call her at all, everytime I try to do that she'd say that she's tired (I can understand because of all the stress)
Post number #309614, ID: b2e5f6
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But when she's actually free, she'd wander off somewhere like youtube or twitter and she wouldn't answer my texts, I've been wanting to talk about it but I need her attention, then again she's either busy or wandering off somewhere again. I want to talk it out to her but this is just hindering me
Post number #309616, ID: b2e5f6
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It's getting frustrating for me and I start to get anxiety, I try my best to focus what I'm doing and check on my messages after a while I made progress on my project but she still hasn't seen my messages.
Post number #309623, ID: b2e5f6
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And she has said that she has lost the spark recently, which isn't good because we haven't been calling for months. Calling each other is a sort of bonding for us, it keeps us in a good relationship, but with the hindrance of school and commissions, we can't bond much anymore. My girlfriend was someone who showed up in my life who had taught me how to love again, that it's okay to love somebody, even if you get hurt again, and I don't wanna lose her GuysImSuperScaredRightNow.png
Post number #309663, ID: 15b21e
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You should tell her that you're afraid of losing her. You should let her know that you're pretty serious about the relationship and won't give up even if it does hurt. Long distance relationships are tough and the only way to get through it is to trust each other immensely. I know the feeling... of a long distance relationship... lonely... wondering what they are doing...missing them.. I don't know how direct you are with your girlfriend but let her know you want her attention bro.
Post number #309694, ID: b30ced
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Protip:long distance relationships almost always fail
Post number #309722, ID: 8e63d0
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You should just break up with her. What kind relationship is it if you can't share your feelings with her, and all the relationship does is make you feel terrible about yourself?
Post number #310499, ID: 3deff7
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>>15b21e I did and things got even worse >>8e63d0 Feeling terrible or not, I have a duty to bring her back no matter what, I don't have time for feeling terrible or be sad, that'd just make me miserable
Post number #310500, ID: 3deff7
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look miserable* (no girlfriends would want to see their man this fucking beta)
Post number #310502, ID: cd68cb
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Read a bunch of NTR. Jack off to it. Eventually you'll break up. Use your imagination to stimulate your NTR sense. Cum buckets.
Post number #310507, ID: c0fc78
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Your relationship is dead. Move on.
Post number #310513, ID: 520c9f
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5 years of long distance relationship, even traveled 500km to see her. She dumped me and replaced me with another guy less than a year later. Just dump her ass before she does it yo you.
Post number #310535, ID: 176d4a
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Pff, big problem. Atleast shes not being very mean tsundere, from time to time calling you names and stuff hurting your feelings tho you trying to be polite till the very end. not dumping you without a word after 3 great years of real frienship. not haunting you in your dreams where you 2 good buds again. no big deal..
WHY THE FUCK CHICKS ARE SO MEAN?! I DIDNT EVEN HAD CRUSH ON HER, SHE WAS REALLY NICE PERSON TO TALK TO. I EVEN HELPED HER TO TRY HERSELF IN ART AND SHE LIKE IT
WHY
Post number #310539, ID: 176d4a
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What i mean by >>310535 is - fuck chicks, fuck me, fuck you, fuck everyone. If shes being mean or ignoring you just dump her right away, some are just dont deserve a second chance
Post number #310559, ID: 8d2460
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That sucks badly. Since she's basically ignoring you, tell her that it's over. If she starts wanting you to come back, power to you! If not,then all I can say is; it's not a real loss.
Post number #310615, ID: 5192bb
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>>309612 Move on. Ignore her and start hanging out with other people. Either she'll get jealous or she'll see it as her excuse to get out of the relationship. Either way, you'll know how she feels about you and resolve the situation.
Post number #310719, ID: 88978f
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I've never knowed long-distance relationship, and I always thought like you g/u/rls if I was in the same case of OP . But at the same time, I now think it could be a sign of cowardness, like you're giving up on the first difficulty of your relationship, damn what will I do if I end in this situation... . Well, be a free-fuck couple resolve this problem.
Post number #310735, ID: 3deff7
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Y'all Thing is that this is my first relationship ever in my whole goddamn life, so it's pretty hard for me to accept that I can always find another one. How the fuck am I supposed to find a girl that can speak english decently as a second language so no one can understands what we say, how do you find a girl that's up to date with memes and the fandoms you've joined in together, how the fuck do you even find another girl this fucking perfect?
Post number #310940, ID: 37cac0
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>>309694 <- This
Post number #310943, ID: 37cac0
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>>310719 It takes two to tango... you can't force a relationship to continue if both people aren't actively trying to fix it...
Post number #310944, ID: 37cac0
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>>310735 Perfect due to the fact that you are long distance. If you lived together you would realize that nobody is perfect. In your imagination she is, but in reality she's not. Speaking from experience, even living an hour away from someone I dated was an incredible strain on the relationship. We broke up after a few months. What you have and what you think you have are two different things. Date someone close enough that you can physically spend time and you will see the diff.
Post number #311100, ID: ab6466
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>>310735 uh... how can you think that speaking english as a second language + up to date with memes are rare traits?
| For a few months now my girlfriend has been constantly busy because of school and commission drawings, meaning on weekends she'd have to draw and do homework. While I'm completely free of all that stuff because summer has already started for me (we're in a long distant relationship), and because of that I can't call her at all, everytime I try to do that she'd say that she's tired (I can understand because of all the stress)