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need intimacy
| well, my chest isn't hot, but throbbing and i have trouble breathing. and i don't know what to do either.
| >>281762
okay yeah i am having more difficulty than usual breathing. it sounds like the same problem. this seems to happen every now and then. eventually it goes away for a few days. but it never stays gone.
| >>281764 well that's weird. i just thought it's a weird coincidence because i don't really relate the condition for the need of intimacy? more like lack of sleep or stress, but who knows.
| >>281773
for me it is caused by these feelings of loneliness. but you might classify that as a source of stress
| >>281777 you could be right! actually i have this friend who were unavailable to me for a few days due to them being preoccupied with another friend, which is kinda stressing me out since they are my only friend. what was your problem, tho? why is intimacy not possible to have for you?
| my only friends* both of them were friends, and both of them were preoccupied with each other
| >>281783
intimacy isnt really something that is possible for me to participate in because i only have fondness for younglings and we live in a universe where pursuits in such things is not permissible for a multitude of reasons
| >>281793 oh boy.. well that's unfortunate. don't think that should be stopping you from finding intimacy tho. have you tried online interaction? no one need to know how old is each other. it may be fake but should you care? we're turning into skynet soon anyway..
| >>281803
there are no substitutes or alternatives to human affection. i do have internet friends but words on a screen only do so much.
| >>281808 being limited to words on screen doesn't mean you can't show true human affection! you sure understand that affection isn't limited to physical contact, don't you? if someone pretends to be something else just for you does that not count as love for you? are you afraid of living a life of lies?
| >>281813
i really just need to feel the warmth of a human being right now. it does not need to be sexual but it does need to be real. the pain in my chest wont go away for insincere words on a screen and that is the problem i am having tonight.
| reality is overrated
rent a hooker and make her roleplay for you - easy!
or maybe get a dog? Idk
| or a cat. cats are fluffy
| Yeah. When I was in long-distance relationships (and those were the only relationships I ever was in for some goddamn reason) I would usually get this very warm, sometimes almost burning and intensely squeezing sensation in my chest when talking to my crush, sometimes hugging my phone without even thinking about it, like I would hug them if I could. Now that I look back on it, it's...really kinda sad actually.
| We' re all coping with loneliness in our own way.
Don' t let it bring you down.
| >>281911 i relate with the phone thing. sometimes i just hold my phone when i couldn't sleep, because someone dear to me could pop up any time to bring me relief (they live in different timezone)
| i hate this so much i want to die
| You should get help op. A therapist can help you manage those urges without hurting anyone.
| >>282766
The 'younglings' you describe. What if the pressure becomes too much to bear and something snaps inside you? Maybe not today or tomorrow, but after a few years? You don't have to face this alone, there are people that can help you.
| I wish I had someone to cuddle with. I feel so isolate, other people touching me is kind of weird. I want someone to break that barrier down and hold me tight so I can feel their warm body.
| >>282766 >>282806
this. <3
we don't hate or question you, we are all fucked up.
But if you never where in therapy it would be good to try it out one time. You can stop at anytime. But maybe you can learn a thing or two which could help you in situations like right now.
Why feel like dying when you could feel like shit-but still have a good time? <3
| >>282806
that pressure point is why i want to kill myself because i cant stand it anymore. if you sincerely believe im also some kind of werewolf/bogeyman i should double kill myself, should i not?
i have nothing but fondness and protective feelings for the younglings. i dont believe i have the capacity to behave in a manner that would cause one harm. im afraid i dont respond well to assertions that i will.
| >>282813
therapy is not a safe place for people in my position. mental health professionals are not to be trusted. they are also not educated in this matter. they have no help to provide. at best they will give you a pill that kills your sex drive. but that pill doesnt prevent crippling loneliness or feeling like completely worthless trash.
| >>282822 then find someone who is, I guarantee there is a therapist who cares deeply for that issue
| >>282932
im sorry but i really feel a therapist cant help me and im not interested in trying due to serious lack of trust in the profession after reading horror stories from others who are in a similar position as me...
| Da horror
| I know the feeling a little op, I live in a city with tons of people, And I almost always feel alone, and that is one of the worst feelings ever being alone in a place full of people. We all need someone to connect with us and understand us properly and makes us feel human and not some weird worthless thing. I try to cope with those feelings with music or some other form of art, like a good movie or series or something, I suggest the same.
| Well,if it makes you feel better. At least on the intamacy front. We do have a carnal urge to seek out the touch of another human being. Isolation can really fucking suck. As for the "younglings" thing. If it makes you feel any better. There is scientific proof that it is neurological and that this is not a fault of character and as long as you don't hurt anyone there are people who try to stay away from their urges. Your not alone in this fight.
| Nah I just want fork you brutal and insanity
| >>283113 I heard horror stories of people simply confessing to sometimes having suicidal thoughts and being locked in a psychiatric hospital for 3 or 6 months and having their records permanently fucked as being mentally ill.
The horror stories are true OP, and I wish they weren't.
That might sound silly to you but try and get a body pillow, either a professional one or an anime one, they keep your spine and helped my instinctive loneliness.
| >>285490
i do now spoon with a pillow when i sleep... ive never seen any benefit to having an anime girl printed on it. i only utilize this in the dark at night. i might try getting a bodypillow though, im starting to have back issues so it can help with two things
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| my chest feels really hot and i have this really painful need to have intimacy with another. does anyone else suffer from this ailment? i dont know what to do, and intimacy is not possible to have for me.