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Help me sort out my love life PLZ p.2
| Hey gurl. I posted in your last thread. Sorry to hear it didn't go how you hoped. But listen - and I know this seems like pedantic bullshit right now - but it's clear to see you are a good person, even if you don't feel like you are at the moment. I hope you won't be hard on yourself over this. Just calm down a bit and remember SOMEONE out there is rooting for you - I am.
Do you wanna tell us more about what happened? Or something else? We're here for you :)
| I actually managed to open up with him and I told him about how when he just suddenly distanced himself I was hurt. But then he apologized and just left. We haven't talked since, and now it's like we're ignoring each other? I think that means he just wants to end our friendship but I'm not really sure. I think I'm gonna try talking with him one more time
| I think the problem is that the dude needs some distance or alone time. You make it sound like he is the problem though. I don't know if talking will be the solution. If it didn't work then, why should it work now? Hard to say what you should do. Maybe he'll miss you and come back on his own?
| Sounds like he just doesn't know what to do. He's probably just avoiding it while he tries to find a solution or hopes it just goes away on its own. I had something similar happen to me once, we didn't speak for months and then ended up dating anyways after talking it out after all that time. I wouldn't be in a huge hurry to talk. I concur that giving him more time seems like the right choice.
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| Hey everyone, same person from before. Whelp, guess who completely destroyed her chances. If you guessed me you're right. For new people that run across this, the run down is that I'm a bitch. I like a guy but I fucked over my chances of being with him so tada ｡:.ﾟヽ(｡_｡)ﾉﾟ.:｡+ﾟ