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Help With New Date Confusion

| o a while ago I got out of a long distance relationship. my ex and are on good, semi-romantic terms. We've both agreed not to get back together though, so I'm trying to meet people.

I connected with this girl on Tinder, and the first date went well, felt like my old innocent highschool dates; a kiss at the end and plans to meet soon. I don't know if it's what I want though.


| I'm not as head over heels for this girl as I was other first dates in the past. I like her, and we hit it off well, but I'm not as enthusiastic as I expected.

I've also started getting this sick feeling about creating a new commitment; it took a date to realize how much I was appreciating being single for the first time in a while.

Lastly, I keep making comparisons to my last relationship, I don't think I've totally moved on yet.


| This girl really seems to like me and is expecting an emotional commitment I'm just not sure I can make. I really don't want to hurt her if that's the case, but I just feel like getting back into a one on one relationship isn't for me right now.

What do I do /u/? Do I break it off right now? Do I plan another date and see if my mind changes? I know I have to talk about this eventually, but maybe it's just initial nervousness, I don't want my last relationship to hold me back.

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