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Honest question from a gal to you fellows of the male gender
| Asking for male opinions on danger/u/ is like asking a room full of lesbo... oh wait.
| I guess it's just because it's a really personal thing so they think too much about it?
| I have a micropenis and I try not to care, but I still worry about what a girl might say when they see it... It's just one of those "manliness" things which is a concept I try not to put much stock in, but I still am embarrassed about for reasons.
| Because it's a commen tactic of both men and women use the size of a man's penis to shame and humiliate them.
| Men tend to worry about the size of their penis not because aesthetics but because it implies that you wont be able to pleasure your partner thus making you useless at sex. It can also be seen as a sign of weakness
| Im assuming that women don’t worry about the size? of their vagina because it really doesn’t matter, it’s not like men will worry about the length of their partner vagina
| It's because of a centuries old culture that teaches big dicks are masculine, being masculine is good and important, and that small penises deserve ridicule. In adolescence mocking penis size or boasting about penis size is a daily occurances, regardless of the facts about size and that the opposite sex typically doesn't give a crap about your dick size.
gays do though, mmm it's so big and thicckkk~~
| because MANY g/u/rls claim the bigger the better
and they will tell you about fucking with g/u/ys and how small or thin or thin and long the dick was and that it as so shitty. Or that the dick was disappearing in one hand which was laughable.
Then all the g/u/ys claim minimum 3 cm more than they have and then everybody feels like shit .-.
Its the fundamental fear of failure.
| >>274996
That's because big penises were connected to lust and having No self control, it was very Much a elite thing
| >>274969 https://www.realclearscience.com/journal_club/2015/09/08/what_penis_size_do_women_prefer_109375.html
And for the gay thing.. uh, let's just say grindr teaches you some things.
| Y'all gave some interesting answers that I probably would have never thought of, so thanks for that insight. Sometimes I'm kinda glad that I'm not a guy, because the stress of having to keep up those kinds of societal standards of being "big cock manly jack" would screw me over. Mostly because I dont have a dominant enough personality to keep such expectations.
| Meh, youll find people who dont care or mind, and unless youre using something from dragondildos, a regular penis would satisfy most people fine so long as theres communication and experimentation. I learned alot of massage techniques and tongue/finger skills to offset my generally quick ejaculations. Id imagine tongue/finger are usually the norm for a lesbians repertoire.
| It's commonplace women humiliating men due to their penis size and both media and culture reproduces that notion. It's not really our fucking fault.
| Cant really tell what it is.. i am sized slighlty above average and for some odd reason i feel a sense of "pride" in that..yes i know its stupid. Honestly though when its guys among guys in example sport showers they really do not care about who has the largest/smallest
| Vaginas are also very different. Some of them feel way better during sex than others. But it's not that easy to compare (also it's probably more subjective) and maybe men don't make such a thing about this than girls do about penis size. Of course most of them are like... Size doesn't matter, but still they're comparing and shit.
| I have a big penis and had the problem with hitting the cervix with my ex. I had to be careful while smashing. She was masochistic so she liked it when I did it a bit, but once I was too rough and she started crying because of the pain. Now I'm scared.
| Alright, I'll take one for the team and ask: How do you measure those dicc? I heard some start it from the shaft, some start from the balls.
I know people who claim that they have 20+ cm dicc said so because they start measuring from the balls.
| >>275275
If you want to be honest you start at the shaft. But you still try to push your triangle ruler (or other measuring tool as far as possible into your flesh and try to be as hard as possible (that can both make like 2 cm.
Then most men add about 3 cm in public talk and flirting and to feel good
>>275244
I'm also slightly above average but I have no pride. Still anxiety. Because then people tell you about their dicks. And u be like ok mine is smaller but still above average
| girls argue which one has tighter pussy, bois argue about the size
| It's due to the fact that other men and even females will laugh at dudes with below average dicks
I remember when I was younger I was terrified of having a small dick
Also 666
| So you're thinking about it like a penis is equal to a vagina when talking about size. Well, no, it's more like comparing it to breasts. Girls don't want normally want a flat chest, but they don't want huge honkers either, somewhere in-between. Same with penises, we just want a good size, and due to porn, ads, and other things, we think that average size is too small. Then there are those that are ok with having the "smaller" size.
| Because how else will black dudes claim any kind of superiority over white guys as lovers and husbands? They are Whittier providers, less emotionally sensitive, have worse hygiene... But they have the big black cock (so the media says) and that is all that matters right? Muh dic
| >>934cff honestly, the only time I've ever seen giant peckers in porn is in yiff or futa art. In porn with real actors, I've seen guys with normal size.
| >>275275
>Measuring from the balls
Wew that sounds like the kind of dude that lies about his size.
From the shaft, the balls won't go inside.
I was blessed with a big Jhonny but I see no impact, most of the time only dudes care about my pen0r size.
| I'm average.
But also a masochist which means I actually wish it was smol.
Because smol = cute
| >>275772 Well, I don't go around and ask how guys measure their dicc, but kinda had the idea that measuring from the balls is kinda cheating. But if I jump and say "you are doing it wrong" I'd probably got circlejerked.
| >>275685 woah woah what? Very few porn actors have average penises. Nobody is talking about a dick that reaches your chin, but the "average" in porn is pretty large and definitely above true average.
| Shaft and from above, everyone doing from the ball are fucking cunt
| Also why the hell is everyone measuring their shaft using the metric system on danger/
| >>934cff really? I must have watched some vanilla ass porn then because I've seen pretty normal sized ones, and some slightly smaller, not "Huge monster dong"
| I feel like all dick in the porn industry is massive but it's only because if it's small I skip
| The penis is the ultimate masculine symbol. The bigger you are the better you'll supposedly please your partner in bed. Personally I couldn't care less if my dick is considered big or not.
| I'm a g/u/rl so .. Don't know.
| Fun fact. During the roman Empire larger penises were disliked because they were seen as animalistic and barbaric
| Funny thing is, big dick is more likely to give you a male child than a female one (let's say 15% more likely) so it's more likely for your genes to get passed on with a son since he can get a lot of women pregnant, at least it was back in the Stone age.
I guess it's just an ancient thing, the big dick stuff.
| >>276436 I'm pretty sure you're describing the sexy son hypothesis, which, wasn't that discredited?
| because our modern society(or rather, those who have demoralized and set the tone for our it, mostly through media and porn) have put a vain & degrading value on men based almost exclusively alone on the size of their dicks. "If your dick isn't over 6.5 inches, then you might as well give up." is the message I understood growing up. It's a lie, of course. The dong does not make the man, it is the man that makes the dong.
| That being said, I myself have given up, but for different reasons.
| Personally because I like thicc dicks and mine is smol. Tho, I don't mind if my boyfriend has a huge one and better yet if he likes smol dicks so I guess the real problem is that I don't have a bf :'(
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| Why are men so sensitive about their cocks? I mean, is it solely the thought process of "bigger means better"? I know us girls are sensitive about our bodies as well, but I've never heard a girl really focus on her vagina as much as guys do their Johnson junior. Really, because I've heard of guys hitting on the cervix & causing pain, or rupturing something inside of a gal. Wouldn't that be cause to think "oh, maybe a big cock wouldn't be all that great?" Can y'all explain?