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Help me sort out my love life plz
| If shes trying to come back to u , and u love her,go for it and ask her out
| >>265988 get back to a normal relationship before that, it wouldn't come off well if after lashing out the first thing you do is ask her out, dont do that for a littlw while. when you talk to her appologise for lashing out, tell her the truth, tell her that you felt hurt and insecure and didn't know what to do, honesty is golden in these situations
| But like idk if I can do that. I've always struggled with conveying my feelings, and more often than not I end up pushing people away. So if I somehow do try to mend our relationship I might end up pushing them away in the end. UGH! Why can't I not be a bitch to him;-;
| I don't know what to do;-;
Idk if he even likes me back or not. Like I said I think he likes another girl and not me. And everytime I try to convey my feelings I either fail, end up doing the opposite of telling him how I feel, or make them uncomfortable because I can't say what I'm trying toಥ_ಥ
| Solution to every romantic drama ever:
Just be honest with your feelings.
| Are you cute? Do you think you are cute? Rate your cuteness from 0 to ten.
| >>266488 that's not a useful question people have no fucking clue how cute they actually are most of the time.
| Am I cute??? I mean I'm not very cute, I look like a stereotype tomboy. If I was cuter would it help me?
| Idk what his type even is;-; I wonder if I should dye my hair? I have red hair but idk if it's decent or not. But I also dont feel comfortable changing my looks for someone else, but idk what to do. Please just any advice would be appreciated
| Be honest about it if you think there's a chance of it working out, as long as you think it's worth it. Also, it's not the end of the world if he doesn't like you, there are plenty of others out there, so don't stress too much. Even if you did start dating, there's no guarantee it would last very long.
I'd personally give it a shot if I knew him well enough, but not if it was just a passing crush based on looks.
| Fml, he apologized. Even though he isn't the one being a piece of shit, he apologized. He tried talking to me so I gathered what I could and told I was hurt by him pulling away and that's why I'm lashing out at him. And he's apologized, when I should be and now I feel really guilty and I feel like I might have made it worseಥ_ಥ
| I don't know what I should do;-; He's trying to mend our relationship while I keep being cruel and I just don't know what to do. I don't want to be aggressive but I feel like a cornered animal whenever I try to open up. I think I'm gonna give opening up another try but idk if it'll go well. I guess I'll come back eventually you tell about the result...
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| First thing you gotta do is stop with the cruelty, as you put it. Stop being defensive and verbally take agency in your own part of the misunderstanding. If you're really that serious about your interest in him, then you need to put aside at least some of that spikey exterior. At the same time, if he gives you a hard time about it, give it back at the same level. If it goes past teasing on either his or your own part, though, it's time to do some thinking for yourself.
| can you give a description of your physical features?
| Be. Fucking. Honest.
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| Guys help, I think I might like someone but they seem to like someone else and they suddenly pulled away from me, but I'm insecure and tbh I was hurt by it, so I lashed out at them and pulled away but now they're trying to come back and idk what to do.