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I'm finally divorcing my abusive wife
| Get a lawyer now.
| I can't stress this enough you need to get one right now so you don't get completely fucked in the court precedence. Don't worry if it's expensive just get one and talk to one now.
| Get a lawyer.
Don't write messages or notes where you curse your wife or give her the rights to your children.
Everything, EVERYTHING can and will be used against you. So be strong and everything will be alright <3
| We've talked and everything is agreed and mutual. She wants it to be quick and painless so I've explained to her the process. She's agreed to it all verbally. I'm gonna try to record her and get it on voice record because I've gotten some belittling conversations so far recorded.
Her mother is coming tomorrow to help her fly back as well....
| >>262046 think you need to mention to her that your recording her, as in some cases that evidence can be thrown out otherwise
| >>262073
Really...i was planning on telling her that I'm recording her if she starts going crazy. Otherwise the mutual absolute divorce remains. The moment i mention im recprding her is when it'll become a battle which were both trying to avoid. But in case it does I'll record myself telling her that I've recorded.
I'm doing this mostly for capturing the belittling remarks she makes in case I have to file against cruelty treatment.
| Good for you OP, I'm glad you escaped that kind of abuse, please be careful not to get spun back in by her now that you got out.
| >>262322
Its extremely difficult and I feel a lot of guilt...but that further shows how confused and broken my mind is...
Thank you so much for the concern.
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| Because this kind of relationship is no good for the children. In addition my mind has completely deteriorated.ive never experienced this monumental amount of depression.
I've tried from the start to make everything better but it never worked. Now that I've finally stood up and made a decision, all her friends and family say I'm wrong for this. She's painted me black to everyone perfectly.
After tomorrow evening I'll be alone. Idk when I'll see my daughter's again. Idk what to do