Post number #258522, ID: ac51a7
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There's this guy that added himself to our friend groups 2 years ago in high school and I never really liked him much, sometimes he's kinda mean to me and I always tried to keep things peaceful but today I was having a bad day and we almost started fighting for something silly I feel like apologizing is the right thing to do but it's not like he's super nice to me... What should I do?
Post number #258535, ID: 64db0c
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apologise, but remind him that he wasn't very respectful to you as well.
Post number #258646, ID: 0af5d9
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You didn't tell us what you fought over, what was said or what illicitedit so, frankly, we couldn't know if you should apologize or not.
He sounds like an asshole though, you should bully him more if he's being a bitch to you for no reason.
Post number #258925, ID: d1007f
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I think he's just needy and wants attention, our group of friends is smol, just 4 of us including me and him He spends most of his time with one specific person which I also do, so I think he's jealous or he's just socially inept and that's why he's a jerk
Post number #258932, ID: d1007f
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>>258646 Oh, it makes me so embarrased to say, we both handled it in such a childish way He was trying to kick an empty juice box into the trash and he kicked it near me, I went to pick it up and put it in the trash because I thought he was done playing but he pushed me away, it made me a bit pissed so I picked it up and threw it in the trash and then he started scalating asking "Why I did that" aggressively Cont
Post number #258935, ID: d1007f
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>>258932 I just said "Because I wanted to", I couldn't really think straight and tell him that sometimes he's a jerk to me and when I saw things were getting heated I tried to deescalate and we ended at us staring daggers at each other It was so silly, glad no one saw that ;s;
Post number #259025, ID: 8e8d9f
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Generally, you should take the high ground. If you do, it can knock the sense into them that even though they are a jerk to you, you're a good person, and they might stop. No guarantees, but doing the right shouldn't hurt.
Taking the high road will also make people believe you more and support you more when he tries to pull that bullshit and is just childish.
Post number #259647, ID: b01935
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Why does my ID keep changing grr Thanks everyone for the advice <3 I guess I'll try to say sorry and tell him how I feel... I like >>259093 solution more though>:3
Post number #259791, ID: c0aeb0
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>>b01935 I'm glad you like my solution, but genuinely explaining your feelings works about as good as murder. Plus it's not illegal.
Post number #260512, ID: b51dad
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I see nothing that merits an apology. Are you sure that's all that happened?
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| There's this guy that added himself to our friend groups 2 years ago in high school and I never really liked him much, sometimes he's kinda mean to me and I always tried to keep things peaceful but today I was having a bad day and we almost started fighting for something silly
I feel like apologizing is the right thing to do but it's not like he's super nice to me...
What should I do?