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Talking to girls
| Whenever I say something to a female they look in absolute disgust and some turn and walk away. The issue's mostly that 3d girls are not as cute as superior 2d grills.
| 1. Girls generally get more attention in events or public in general. How many guys have tried to hit on her/cat called before I meet her today? Maybe if I greet her, I will just be seen as another one of those.
2. Ok, I get to greet her. But now what? It's easier to find conv with guys. If he's not a gamer or weeb, he is into sports, or tech. While girls usually are into fashion, food, and other stuff that I don't know much about.
| Even if she is a gamer, she'll most likely play casual/ mobile games, or sims. Things that I can't get into.
Even if she's a weeb, she probably watch shoujou stuff and into yaoi
| >>258324 Wew, that number 2
Like sure, I don't know your surroundings so I can't tell, but I find it very hard to believe
| I agree. I find it's difficult to converse with either.
| >>258354 this holy shit lmfao
you can't walk up to a girl with a relationship in mind. just treat her like a normal person. "what if she got catcalled earlier", goddamn
| You think % of gamer girls and gamer guys are the same? I've heard of no girl playing hell moo or forbidden siren tho. MOST girls are not that intersted in this kind of things.
| Also I'm personally afraid to interact with girls because they usually mock me either behind my back or just in front of me so yeah.
| >>258363
Listen, even I've never played hell moo or forbidden siren. Guess I shouldn't even call myself a gamer, huh.
| >>258374
It's about how um obsessed(?) girls can be. I'm ok with calling them gamers, but most of them know very little about non famous games.
| >>258299
The vast majority of this kind of thinking comes from inexperience and fear. These people care too much about failing, get too self conscious, just generally get anxious in social situations they're not familiar with. It's easier to just avoid it.
| Well, I think the reason some people who have this problem is because they see every girl as a potential girlfriend or something. Just talk to girls the way you would a random guy.
| Practice by speaking with traps. As time passes you can either date the traps or move on to girls when you feel more comfortable.
| >>258453
Fake it till you make it is a real thing, coming from sunshine who feels very much the same, but grit my teeth abs made female friends.
It gets easier
| >girls are humans just like boys
ha-ha, had a giggle 'ere
| >>258503 This. I have no trouble talking to girls or guys, although I can come off as a little shy, which I am. But when it comes to talking to a girl that I like or want to ask out, I find that I'm more nervous and self conscious about what I say to them. It's a bad habit and I end up filtering myself in front of them and don't let them see me for who I actually am.
| I thought you guys were all females anyway you fucking liars
| feeeeemales
| Personally, it becomes easy to put girls on a higher level. I'm not saying I feel unworthy to talk to them, just that I shouldn't try to innitiate a conversation. If the ice has already been broken, I don't have much trouble.
Of course, it doesn't help that my sexual desires break the scale, and I don't want to come off as someone who wants to fuck everyone.
| >OP: "ples answer me"
>Gurl answer detailing the problems
>Other gurls laugh at her, called her closed minded, and middle schooler
Yeah, I'm sure that will make him more confident talking to a girl in the future
| >>258362 how is it that you think I am not treating her like a normal person? I just greet her and try to find a good conversation topic.
I also didn't say I am talking to her out of desire to be in a relationship with her
I think the fact that I am not looking for relationship made it worse. Like I said, maybe earlier in the day/yesterday, someone just randomly hit on her. Here I am just in it for the conversation, and about to be treated like a horny guy.
| >>259079
just stop assuming what she'll treat you like beforehand then. that's what's making you nervous. taking the time to greet someone and finding a topic tells most people you're interested in a conversation, not just a horny guy.
| Usually, dead girls can't say no
| To be quite honest for me the bigger question is how to talk to people in general
| Girls are cold hearted, condescending and always have a line of men as her slaves around. I hate them despite my sexual urges.
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| Hey i often read things like "i can't talk to girls" and stuff. To be honest i just dont understand. You can talk to boys but not to girls? Where is the difference? They are humans just like boys are. Or are they not? Are you scared of rejection? What rejection? Romantic or "normal reflection"? If it's not romantic why is it so different then? I dont mean people with general anxiety, i mean people with girl-anxiety ples answer me