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Would you date someone who lost a massive amount of weight?

| I've lost a significant amount of weight and have found that my mental health is at an all-time high. I still have a lot to lose, but I'm not stopping anytime soon.

Truth be told, I have developed feelings for a friend of mine who has seen me at my highest and worst. We have a ton in common and get along amazingly, but I know my weight is an issue. Would you guys consider dating someone who lost a lot of weight, or would the image of them forever be tainted as the "obese friend"?


| >>247776 Personally I haven't had an experience like that, but I guess I wouldn't see someone that close as an "obese friend" forever. Hell, I'll even give mad respect for taking control of your body.


| Yeah, why not?
I mean, people date obese people anyway so I don't see why being formerly obese would be a problem


| If anything a person who has the will and fortitude to lose that much weight is an incredibly attractive person, both in and out


| Why the fuck would that matter unless you're an anorexic skeleton.


| Sure. I dont think stretch marks would bother anyone too much or at all


| I think it might make you even more attractive since you chose to change your body and proved you had the the determination to follow through.


| if you're confident with yourself then go for it. if you're good friends then they'll understand your feelings, even if they dont reciprocate. besides, weight has nothing to do with being datable. i've seen tons of overweight guys get dates, so just focus on you and your feelings


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