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i started a relationship i didn't want
| i like this guy only as a friend, and i really do not want to be in a relationship with him. but i feel like I have dug myself into a hole. i have been just kind of going along with what ever he says, but i don't know what to do.
| So just tell him the truth and end it.
| This is like the cases of "being nice to that weirdo at school"
| Use him
| Why the fuck would you be like "lol I'll play with this guy's feelings by saying I'll date him, what could possibly go wrong teehee"
The longer this farce goes on the worse it'll be. Just be upfront that you did this because you thought it would make him feel better and you didn't realize how far it would go.
| Are you both bois ?
| Option A: take the high road, just treat them nicely and act like if it's a relationship. If they are depressed they will likely cling to anything so while you dont find anyone to be attracted to just call him pet names and call it a day.
Option B: start acting awfuly, make him not want you as a gf, if he has enough backbone to start complaining you can go "Oh. I'm sorry you and I are to different I guess it wasnt meant to be, still friends?"
| >>23ad23 nahh I've experienced this kind of relationship from both sides. It's best to just know you have a friend who cares enough to do something like that for you.
It'll fucking suck when they break up though. He'll probably feel like the butt of a joke if they don't get why OP did it.
| This is why in the end, it is better off alone and with some friends only, and with a fuckmate or two. The feelings drama is very rarely worth it the effort, time, and nerve.
| Well you cared and tried to help but did a mistake, break up with that friend, be honest, tell him you cared and didn't knew what to do, say you were sorry, because the break up will hurt, but being in this fake relationship will hurt more. Show him that you and other people care and he does not have to go alone through what he is going through. You better do that soon than latter, the latter you do it the worst will be.
| You did the one thing that could make it worse. Good job OP, you are a brainlet.
| Sayori from DDLC would like to have a word with you.
| Don't worry... everything's gonna be ｄａｉｊｏｂｕ
| This happened to me once and ended up having a gf I wasn't interested in. You can try to like him like I did (in my case, it didn't work since we barely shared any common interests outside of anime), see if you can find something to latch onto to not make it so miserable in case you can't just tell the truth. It's the coward's way, but it's something in case you need time to muster up some courage.
| Make him fall in love with someone else.
| >>5ed7a6 chill. OP obviously had good intentions, and jumping on someone like that for making the wrong call isn't going to make anything better
| stupid ass OP
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| so let me say
this person is a friend of mine. he is also suicidal.
three days ago, my friend was acting weird. he kept talking about all of his pain and how much he wanted to die. i was worried for him. i couldn't think of anything i hadn't already tried, so i thought "fuck it, I'll start a relationship, im sure it will work out." he accepted, saying he did have feelings for me, "perfect. so it will definitely work out" except it can't. 1/2