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How do you know you can trust someone?
| I dont know how can explain in a good way but you need to make more risky decision in your life, and dont think so much about it, because that make more insecure about yourself, and if the thing going wrong its ok through, cuz u can be stronger for a next time, or learn something, I don't know, but every decision have good things and bad things.
Just... be yourself and try to meet more people, and someday you can meet someone who can share all your thinks
| >>37727b Has the idea, expect the worst expect to be hurt so you can be ready to take some hits.
>this person seems trustworthy but I'm not sure
Say "fuck it" get involved, trust them, if you get hurt "well I saw that coming" and it will help soften the blow. If they end up being a good person then fuckin marvelous!
| How the hell can you trust someone when I can't even trust myself
| >>d8e066
In somepoint of my life trust myself was almost impossible for me, because I didn't know how.
But I talked with a ''friend'' of work about random stuffs, when I feel beter I asked about bad feeling of my past (but was a lie about that time for feel more relaxed to talk) and that guy make is point of view, so with that I can think about whats is happening to me but with other eyes.
Basically talk about your false past feelings and having a new opinion.
| Btw sorry about some words errors, I'm trying to wrote better
| Me too can't trust people in the present century. So many times I was betrayed... And now im trying again be trustful again.But attempts are futile.
| >>213819
You'll find someone someday. Don't give up anon!
>>212454
I think you should think less about those feelings(paranoia and such). It's something like how you trust your best friend I suppose.
| There isn't a quick test. Just eventually after you're around someone enough you begin to trust them or you don't.
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| >inb4 haha incel
No seriously how do you people commit? Anytime people get close to me i either think horrible thoughts of paranoia or i just stop talking to them at weeks at a time. Girls are the worst tho. They say anything nice to me i'm going full downwards into oblivion.
Also share stories too i guess.