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Will I ever find anyone like her?
| huh
| A lot of people feel the same way then they fall in love. I'm sorry to say that, but you surely will.
| Happy couples make this out as something that will definitely happen to everyone at some point. I want to see the statistic of how true that is
| OP, someone like that is not very easy to find. I really wonder what made you drift appart if the feeling is/was mutual?
In the future you will seek in others what you already had with this person. And we should not lie to say you will. Everyone is different so probably you will find other things beautiful.
But all of this will take time. Time is the only doctor in these cases. It is inevitable. But in time you will heal. The scars will remain, but you will heal.
| >>177909
> what made you drift appart
I don't want to go into details, it's complex, but the short version is - she has made an unwavering decision, that will lead to me not being able to love her later in life. Feels so silly, to break because of something that's not an issue yet.
| I've only felt like that for one girl in my life when I was a teenager, she jumped off her apartment window about 6 years ago, her chest was cracked in half and she died two weeks later in the hospital..
I've never loved anyone again.
>>177563 I'm pretty sure these couples aren't actually in love, people usually change relationships every few months/years. It's probably peer pressure forcing them to be together, just like it's peer pressure to have kids..
| >>177925
Didnt mean to be discomfortable with the question. It is enough what you said and thanks for that.
So yea. Time will help. To heal, to recover, to see things differently, to give you confidence in your decision, to undo a hasty one... time can do all those things.
May your suffering be light as air.
| 22 years old wizard-in-training here, never experienced anything quite as intense as OP has described. I've had a few close-ish connections that I labeled as "love" for the time being, but my depression and self-esteem issues didn't allow me to deepen those relationships, or even enjoy them at all. And, eventually, led to me pushing away the people who I cared for, and who still cared for me despite what the voice inside was telling me.
| >>178052 thank you, it's fine, it's just more complex and ugly than I want to explain. I'll get over it, but I can't stop worrying if I'll ever have a connection like that again... I'm not the most sociable person.
| >>177563 Is it only me that notices a lot of the happy couples are actually not very interesting people? They are not bad people or anything, just kind of without something originally theirs when you talk to them. Many also seem like they have accepted the other more than really having found someone who completes them.
| I found this, or so I thought. Fell intensely in love with someone so special that only exists every couple of centuries. And I hope I will get one day over the fact that they just don't love me back the same way. I just wish I had the strength to cut off the contact fully because it kills me. Everyday. -22 years old
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| How old are you and with how many people have you had a strong connection and love interest? Like being able talk the whole day and wonder where the time went at the end and why you aren't hungry. Having a million common things and traits, both important and as many silly and bizarre, and appreciating each other's differences. Feeling a strong mutual physical attraction and having a hard time believing that someone so beautiful would be interested in you.