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I miss my friend
| After almost 3 years, she made another friends and she was able to get a boyfriend, he was really nice to her. Then, with someone so kind she realized how toxic I truly was. I knew I was toxic and I tried my hard to be kind and good to her, to be a good friend. We fight, she never spoke with me after this fight.
So I called her and said a proper farewell and for her own good, I left her and wished to her to be as happy she could be.
| It had passed 4 months and there is only a few days that I don't miss talking to her, but today I miss her a lot. Just now, I spied at her social network and she is really happy with her boyfriend, I'm glad and also sad.
Wonder why seeing a friend so happy hurts so bad, huh.
It was just that I want to say it, I have no where else to talk about how I'm feeling and shit. Meh, that's it.
| Right now I'm having similar issues with an old ex that left me two years ago, I never wanted to separate from her but I couldn't obligate her to stay with me.
Then she's blocked me from social networks for no apparent reason, but this Wednesday she unlocked my account and the first news I get is she now has a little daughter, and she is very happy with her actual boyfriend. I was devastated but I can't really do anything, right?
| However after a while I thought I should just accept things as they are, I mean, it's been two years since we separated.
| You have to move on anon, I went through a similar thing. You gotta make yourself happy, try to meet new people. Also stop doing thing that remind you of her
| I know it’s easier said than done but there no other choice
| >>171152
Yea, we can't do anything but move on like >>171162 said. I'm trying and I'll continue to do it, to met new people to be friends with.
We gotta be glad for other people's happiness, no matter who it is --this is what I believe.
| >>171193 and you're 100% right. Be glad that you could experience this, treasure those memories and move on, time to make new memories
| u shouldn't think about how happy was you two its like looking shadows from past and want to time never passes. i hope u will find a new friend and open a new page in your life
| Anon you're gonna guilttrip me all over again. I was in a similar story, except I'm on the girl's position.
I never heard from him again but I hope he's doing okay. Just because he was bad for me doesn't mean he's bad for everyone.
| >>171782
>Just because he was bad for me doesn't mean he's bad for everyone.
Yeah. Well, I am bad to almost everyone tho. :')
Now I'm wondering how she would be feeling about this, but I guess it doesn't matter.
>>171737
I know that, but I don't like to forget precious things. I hope I find someone as good as she was for me someday.
| Thanks, guys. I'll do my best.
| >>172555 you're conscious about the bad thing about your self, how about try to change those things. That’s a nice first step
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| There was this girl who I got to know in a fragile moment for both of us. We were so fucked up because of the shits we passed and we had no one. We made a promise of being friends and helping each other, licking our hurts and pains.
With time, we became so close. We watched movies together through skype, we slept together (through skype) and we chatted so much. We had so many moments. I love her and she loved me, as friends ofc.