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How does it feel to be in a relationship?
| >>161216 It's really a mixed bag for most people. Initially you're constantly swinging between ecstasy and panic, worrying and overthinking about your partner's every word. As the two of you become accustomed, engage in more physical affection with each other however, you start to gain this sense of security around the other person. Just looking at them evokes a sort of admiration, and a simple flutter of her eyes or his hearty chuckle can fill your heart with warmth.
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>>161256
I hope that answered your question. Don't give up, g/u/rl! You'll find the right person someday. <3
| >>161256
Something is seriously wrong with my relationship. Perhaps it's all the emotional distress she causes me
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| It depends on each person and situation, no two qualia are the same.
| It feels like a million dollars! Which I don't have ;-;
| I've been in many. A lot were toxic. A few helped shape me into who I am today. The one I'm in now fills me with pride and joy.
Relationships are as diverse and different as the people involved in them.
Balancing time and responsibilities can be difficult. Normal things become a team effort.
| Wow, it sounds nice. For a second there I thought I wasn't missing on much
| >>161257 yeah you did answer my question, thanks. Also thanks for the support, perhaps I'm still not ready
| It's fucking great, like you always have someone to express feels or joys, and that someone will be by your side cheering you up, and it just makes me happy.
It's difficult to say how it feels, but you just need yo know that it feels gr8
| You'll either cry or laugh because of that, but that's one of the fun part.
| It can feel both like a stronghold or like a prison realy
| a relationship, well, a good one at least, should feel like a best friendship but a little more intimate. a lot of people go into relationships just because they dont want to feel alone. if you cant see your partner as a good friend, then it might not work in the long run. the biggest part is liking yourself, though. cos if you don't like yourself then its likely that you wont believe your partner actually likes you and you'll push them away on accident. good luck out there!
| Love is mentally consuming, literally can't think of anything else
| I feel like I'm in love but there is no one in into. I'm 18 and never even make out with another person so i'm probably just feeling lonely
| Well from what I gather, it depends on the person. Honestly I wouls like to try and be in one but at the same time, if it's not gonna work, then why even bother
| Playing the social game so someone will notice you and be interested to know more about you, is such a chore. Most of the time first reactions are from physical appearance, being cute or handsome or pretty or gorgeous and the like. Everyone needs to admit for the sake of being honest that that is what strikes first. All other things come after.
Either you are a normal, or worse still subnormal, at appearances and need to play the social game, or youre good looking and life is easy.
| I'm pretty cute if I do say so myself. My mom also says so, and so do my friends(nohomo). I just lack social skills
| But yeah I agree it does souns like a hassle. It seems like the best way is to try and get into a relationship with someone you are already friends with. I tried that once and I got played like a damn fiddle pretty much
| It's annoying, I almost want to be alone again
Still...
| Depends on the relationship, i haveny been in one for wuiye a while, they can have their ups and downs. Buy really ir feels nice to be able to have someone who isnt your fanily caring about and likewise.
| this* rather.
| It's incredible, if you found the right person that knows exactly what to say to make your heart feel like it wants to explode. Every time you see them or talk to them makes you smile no matter how much time you spent together on that particular day. I managed to get lucky and have my first love be my last one too. It's an amazing feeling that goes way beyond words, words like wonderful, perfect, etc, don't even come close. But I know you can find someone right for you anon!❤
| It seems like it feels different for everyone.
| It's good to have someone by your side (specially for me, who have no friends) but it can be actually fearful if you realize you can actually part ways (hers or mines fault). It can also be frustrating if she doesn't keep up with your sex inclinations or the opposite situation. But "by default", it's really pleasant.
| >>162587 yeah all cool and sweet but what tf am i supposed to do if that person is a friend if mine? Las time i confessed to a friend they pretty much ruined my life and now im kinda scared to make that mistake again
| Like, this friend of mine clearly likes me, they message me fairly often and we hang out when we are both available. But I don't knoe if they think of me as just a friend or perhaps they are hinting at something else you know. And since i made that mistake already I am afraid to ask them out, especially because we have such a good relationship
| The only problem in our friendship is that they sometimes don't get my edgy meme humour so its kinda lame having to explain every joke. Aside from that I'm confident saying that we love each other
| I don't understand why they seem to like me that much, so that confuses me into thinking that perhaps they are into me. But I don't wanna risk losing them by asking if thats thr case or making a move
| I wanna convince myself that we don't have those feelings for each other. But that's only a defence mechanism for me to not do aanythin. And i'm ok with that
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I guess it's better to give a try than not. I mean if you really feel that feel towards your friend.
| >>163004 I thought the same thing about my relationship, anon. "My first love is also my last one" Although we're not fully committed yet and it's a long distance relationship, I still enjoy texting to her everyday and call each other "dork", it makes me realize how beautiful life is and I want to show her the beauty of it as well.
| It's just that I don't want for me to seem so desperate, she knows about the time I got rejected by another friend, so she might think it's the same for her and that I just seem to crush on every girl I see. Which is true
| Also a friend of mine told me apparently she is into him last year. So idk what to do
| I was thinking, perhaps I should flirt and see how she reacts. Maybe I'll get a clear hint as to if she likes it or not, I hope
| What the hell, in 2015 we held hands in public in front of my squad and I was very clingy of her, I guess I started to crush on her that time. She also let me use her lap as a pillow once, now that I think about it, what the actual fuck were we thinking?
| Like you're chained to a bed of nails
| So being in a relationship turns you into a fakir
| in a world where our life is super insignificant and is like a femtosecond in the grand scheme of the universe and there are billions of life forms on earth, and many more in the realm of possibility, finding one person who can understand you is pretty special in my opinion. Its cause i believe that, that i hate cheating. if someone so special comes along maybe just once in a lifetime, why would you want to disappoint them with something like that.
| Well I'm glad they were happy ones. I have yet to experience those myself
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| I've never experienced that since I've always been rejected. So how does it feel?