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The girl I love is gay

| Shitty situation right? As anyone experienced something like this before? Any tips? She says she is confused cause she loves me but she isn't attracted to guys. She was really really straight some time ago but then she had like some cuddles with a chick and now she likes chicks but she isn't sure if she doesn't like guys at all, it's like she doesn't dislike guys but at the same time she doesn't like them too much. I want to convince her to try to have a relationship with me but...


| That sucks, g/u/rl. Even if she did like guys, it sounds like it would only be a little bit. So there's an obvious preference for being with a chick. If you're prepared to risk her losing interest or whatever over time because she realizes she definitely likes girls more, then go for it. Just be prepared for the potential negative turns it may or may not go as she continues to explore her sexuality.


| >>157392 Can't say it better myself. Props on you for letting her find her identity op.


| Become a g/u/rl easy enough then she won't have a hard decision


| You should not feel a thing before it's safe. You're asking to get friendzond. Get a hold of yourself, be a man and go find a less bs gril


| >>157381
just be like me.
don't give a fuck and be yourself.
meet her, joke around, kiss her.
if she likes it u will have a lesbian gf-which just found out that she's bi-sexual lmao

also don't convince her rational side, convince her hedonistic side.
for sexual stuff there is no logical reasoning, it's our animal brain which handles it.
and ya gotta convince that animal brain lmao
if she rationalises shit she will disagree.
if she feels the sight she might handle on it.


| >cuddles
Lol

She doesn't love you like that. If she did, this would be moot.

Move on.


| >>157673 It would be mean if I tried not to let her. I want her to be happy so whatever, if she's happy like this, I'm gonna find a way to deal with my feelings


| >>157717 I know I know... I just fall in love to easily... Cause I don't want to be alone anymore and I desperately need someone. Thanks for the tip btw I will mind that the next time


| >>157744 oh well we kissed before. But again, she says she doesn't feel too much, she doesn't dislike it but isn't nothing special either


| >>158029 I'm trying to move on... Btw I have to decide to met her or not today..


| It's worse the other way around because there's 10x as many straight girls as gay ones.

Just stay friends with her and find a new girlfriend.


| >>158306
Buddy, girl do really sense if you feel that way. A gf wont help you to feel less lonely. Lets train and love ourselves first~


| Update: we was talking about sex stuff and she said to me that she has seen a dick before and that dicks scare her


| >>158893 As everyone else has said, just do yourself a favor and move on. It'll be the best thing for you, because it sounds completely impossible that she could ever be in a sexual relationship with you, my friend.


| >>158961 yeah yeah, i will move on, don't worry, thanks for all the words you guys never disappoint.


| It's a sad world we live in tho


| It would be great if everyone was bi

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