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(18) asked a girl out for the first time and got rejected.
| 100 days of rejection?
| >>153270
g/u/rl I envy your spirits. Indeed, I do. Maybe I should do that too, if only the people around were not so uninteresting as to make me not want to ask one out.
| >>153313 this spirit for me was not the easiest to achieve. What really helped me is after reading social anxiety book I have conversation in my diary. I imagine it a big corporate building with businessmen criticizing me and me being rational/realistic. I'm still gonna be nervous tomoroww since i've never been out in a bar to socialise. Try tinder and not to be rude but the thing that peopele around are uninteresting seems like an excuse. Diary convo is key.
| >>153339
No, seriously, they are. I do go to bars out. Well not many of them but a couple. Also speaking to random strangers is not normal here and playing the social game just to avoid that "who the hell invited you here" response is a pain in the butt.
| Good OP! A man has unlimited ammo, shoot wild and then pick the best you hitted
| The balls on OP are gaint. Paraise ops balls.
| >>153270
> try and get rejected everyday this week
Sorry, maybe the culture is different where you're from, or maybe it's acceptable for a 18 year old, but that's just so socially retarded. You don't understand the basics of human relationships. It's quite obvious when a girl is and isn't interested in you, if you can't tell, then you're doing everything completely wrong.
| >>154342 asking a random girl out, just because she caught your eye, is inherently disrespectful and shallow, no matter how polite you are and no sane girl will accept an advance like that. Do chat with girls, if they appear approachable, figure out if they interest you and if you interest them, then ask on a date, to continue getting to know eachother. Do not ask girls out, just because you like how they look. I shouldn't need to explain this...
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| Feels pretty good. No regrets or wondering what if. Gonna try and get rejected everyday this week. Go to a bar or something. She just wasn't right for me.
Try it!