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Rejected or Too Scared To Admit ?
| The thing is that, with time, C. Got clingier, softer with me. She even insisted I'd go to her town for my studies. People even told me we look like an old couple. But she never really made any moves or anything like that that would make it clear that our feelings are the same. Hell ... There was a period in which we didn't speak at all, after a fight. And she fucked up that whole time, until I came back to her.
| Last time, we got to see each other - yeah, we live far apart from each other - and ... i kinda got the realization after that that she' kinda is the love of my life. But ... I still dunno how to interpret her behavior with me. She told me that my feelings and my behavior towards her never bothered her, but other guys' did annoy her a lot...
... Wow i'm so lost
| >>145627
She is either secretly gay afterall, or she just unwillingly dug a pit for you when she didn't cut ties initially and stayed close friends.
Sorry this board is not up for real psychological help, I can only suggest discuss it all with her and together find a definitive solution instead of both keeping secret feels.
| >>#145964 Thanks, the fact that you took a bit of time to tell me that is already plenty enough. I will try once the time seems right.
>>#145968 I don't know if it's the right thing to do B')
| From my little and terrible experience, I've learned that talking about it is probably the most effective way to figure it out, because if you don't then you'll get pulled along like a dead fish on a line. It may not be the best advice and actually may make things worse, but when I put myself back into my past, knowing what was going on is one of the very first things I should've done. Good luck g/u/rl
| ( 'tis in some way similar to my relationship with my girlfriend, who likes girls while I am not a girl. Told her of my love, while saying cheesy things like it didn't really matter to me if it was one-sided, but in the end, she decided to go out with me; we've been together ever since, and she often want us to be together, and insist we live together. The thing is, she still like girls (while we effectively do function like any other couple)
| 'tis something that's sometimes a bit frustrating-incomprehensible, and I do not quite know what to do of it, a bit like OP I guess ^^, but all in all, I think this sometimes bittersweet happiness is still happy, even if you can't understand your partner, even when you don't understand why she's saying such things or if there's a meaning to it, or something like that? :3 )
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| 'kay, so ... Yeah, it's a drama/romance post. I'm confused and dunno what to do.
I have this friend - let's call her C. - that has been my friend for years. Cute. Pretty shy at first. Not really honest with her feelings too, out of embarrassment or fear of rejection and judgment. And for years I have been in love with her.
I told her that a few monthes after it happened, and ... Well, we're both girls and she considers herself het. So i knew I was in to be rejected. But.