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Why is it so hard to talk?
| You shouldn't be too concerned. Some people have other problems,for example thinking clearly. I actually have a similar problem like you, but I know the trigger: when talking to someone I am still not comfortable around with.
For example my classmates. When I try to explain something I tend to spawn a word salad from my mouth, which is incomprehensible.
| >>144873 that happened to me as well before. I think it is when we feel passionate about what is being discussed or when there is a lot you want to say and can not find a way to have it short if the situation is such.
Don't worry too much. In time you will find your way to it. When questions are involved give short answers and steer it to a questions and answers sortie.
You will find your way quicker than you think. Don't worry.
| Sometimes if I'm worried I'm going to get flustered in front of someone I close my eyes, focus on just me and what I need to say. Granted it's not easy to focus when you're nervous or anxious but I have had opportunities to practice. Alcohol can be a crutch but I think it genuinely helps IF USED RESPONSIBLY. But I used to abuse alcohol so YMMV
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| Sometimes I can communicate extremely well, voicing my thoughts clearly and concisely, but other times it just comes out as a mess of nonsensicle word soup goup. And it seems to be completely random whether I can communicate normally or speak like I have brain damage.
Anyone else get these huge, random differences in communication ability? Should I be concerned?