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Advice for a sad loser
| I got the same problem as you
It sucks, but thats the price that im paying now for being such a jerk
| Yes I do
| >>142195 you probably have too high standards, that's all. If a girl rejects you, go for an uglier one next time, continue that and soon enough you'll find someone.
| Older men are more attractive to women because they fill the role of mature provider better than men in their 20s. Women in their 20s are more attractive to men because they still can act like they need someone to protect/provide for them. So I say try to meet the role of mature provider. (Just one woman’s opinion)
| >>142490
Op mentioned being overweight. The problem is all there.
I have a cousin who was 150kg and fat and horrible to look at. As he was not dating anyone during these last years, he somehow went hermital with food and after one year I did not believe what I saw. He was slightly more meaty than I am and was 80kg. Explained he was in a constant extreme hunger state for all year long. Absolutely no sugar, no bread, no meat. Only boiled vegetables with drops of oil.
| (cont.) Ate a bare minimum of this every day. Mentioned that very often felt like fainting. Did not use the car or busses but did not work out either. Only walked whenever possible.
Now he has found a girl and seems like they will be engaging or smth. Says he would still be alone if he did not do what he did and also says he keeps a strict diet. Only vegetables, meat and bread only once a week, absolutely no sugar AT ALL. Better a hell of slight hunger vs. a hell of overveight.
| Forgot to mention he was not dating anyone during 10 or 11 years. It is only one year after that he is normal again to look at.
This is the harsh reality right there. Gather your shit OP and do what you know you must but can not bring yourself to.
| 1. Lose weight
2. Shotgun method. If you ask girls out en mass, eventually you will eithet get really good at asking girls out, find someone who finds you attractive, or find someone desperate enough to date you.
3. Lower your standards! All these ugly fat women need dick too yo
| Losing weight it is then. I just didn't thought it would be such a deal breaker. I'm not fucking 150kg after all, only 95 at 1.78m height. Well, thanks anyways dudes
| >>142589
It all depends, g/u/rl. I'm 99-100 kg at ~182 cm, but it's all mostly fat and barely any muscle. Currently trying to work out and eat healthier (although definitely not to extents of >>142504) and so far it's doing great things both to my overall well-being and my self-confidence in particular.
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| So, I'm turning 26 in a few, and it just hit me again: I'm closer to my 30s than to my 20s, and never had a girlfriend. Is there still a chance for me? I mean, I'm not particularly ugly, most people say I'm a nice guy and fun to hang around, although I'm overweight. But I always got rejected. I feel like I miss something very important to be actually attractive but I don't really know what to do, or what am I doing wrong. Any advice? Should I just give up? I feel so old