Post number #140688, ID: 7c0970
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Like, everything you say, they'll take it the negative way. Just saying hi will make them say depressing shit and everything will go down hill straight away.
Post number #140694, ID: 7bbfab
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Just reply positively with love ❤️ They will get fed up and stop
Post number #140699, ID: afdd94
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Maybe you shouldn't interact with them at all, OP.
Post number #140703, ID: 7bbfab
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>>140699 why not can't we all love each other?
Post number #140719, ID: fbea5d
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>>140688 Simply cut ties with them and move on. If that is not an option, then be honest and (preferably politely) tell them you are fed up with their excessive negativity. Best case scenario, they'll cut the crap and make a change for the better. Worst case, they'll just leave you and (hopefully) won't bother you anymore.
Post number #140734, ID: 957d9a
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idk man you're not forced to deal with other people's problems, if they act like they got a dick up their ass 24/7 tell them to fuck off
Post number #140759, ID: e28248
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Seduce them. The sex will give them a positive attitude. :D
Post number #140761, ID: 7bbfab
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>>140759 love love love love love love love love love love love love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Post number #140836, ID: 8463b4
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Kill them with kindness. Oblivious kindness. Pretend like you don't hear them being mopey. Be moe.
Post number #141004, ID: 1a8384
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Imho just cut ties with them. Although sometimes ppl likd that don't knoe what they are doing wrong so (If possible) tell them that they are not doing favors acting like crap
Post number #141051, ID: 095321
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rub him the right way and it will work
Post number #141126, ID: d19198
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Keeping kind/leveled conversation no matter what and not falling for their heightened tone or even insults. Cause a conversation with only one person shouting and being a jerk sounds weird and ridiculous, so they might give that up. Often works if a person is angry/pessimistic for their personal reason (having a bad day/sickness etc) But if they have some grudge against you personally, until you settle it, you gonna have to invent tricks to make them listen every time.
Post number #141678, ID: e4f0be
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I was just now arguing with my father on the phone, and at some point suddenly asked him if I could call him back in a minute, as if something serious required my attention. That broke the flow of heated conversation, and after that we just finished discussing same subject normally.
Post number #142173, ID: 3c5cd2
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WITH POSITIVITY
Post number #143104, ID: b56dd7
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i would personally kick them in the dick so hard, their entire spine becomes inverted, i hate people who act all emo and depressed for no reason
Post number #143119, ID: 2b7e7e
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I had a couple of people who were in shitty situations in their life and I have a pretty high tolerance for griping so I usually lend an ear. After a certain point some people just keep arguing about how their life sucks and nothing they can do will change it. Or they are genuinely asking for advice and they just get saddled with a lot of shit. ... I don't know if any of my advice helped so w/e
Post number #144244, ID: b95d0f
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Negative people are just realistic.
Post number #144703, ID: 2b7e7e
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>>144244 Sometimes. Sometimes it's pessimism disguised as realism. People can have a delusional worldview that just happens to be negative so it's easier to assume they know something you don't.
Post number #144731, ID: 77d23a
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>>143104 Lmao how I wish.
OP, it depends what position you're in. Respond positively and like someone else said they'll get fed up and annoyed.
Generally you may want to cut ties with this person. I deal with someone like that daily. They'll eventually begin to wear you down. No matter how resilient your mind is. Be careful.
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| Like, everything you say, they'll take it the negative way. Just saying hi will make them say depressing shit and everything will go down hill straight away.