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How to stop being a beta
| Take your own initiative.
If you think you're a beta male, you must already know the things that set you apart from the rest. You know where to start. You know what you need to change. Don't ask strangers for help when you already have the answer.
Put your nose to the grindstone, Anon.
| You want to be an alpha?
| >>138467
woah woah woah who said anything about boys here? That's a pretty bold assumption to make, g/u/rl
| >>138506 let it slide this once, the advice was harsher than I hoped for but I doubt there's any other way to stop being beta
| hahahahaha theres no such thing as alphas and betas god damn people will buy into anything that makes them feel superior
| >>138537 Because you know you could be stronger. You know you're lacking and you want more for yourself.
| >>138528
>>138556
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Let the meme die, OP. Alpha, beta... they don't exist.
Well, ok, they do "exist," and that's to make money off of bullshit advice books written by sleazy motherfuckers who profit off of the insecurity of men and women alike to teach you how to be a douchebag.
If you want to stop feeling inferior, then give yourself something to feel superior or at least comfortable about. And if you can't even do that much, then no one can help you.
| The idea of alphas and betas comes from a misconception that a researched had about wolves. There's literally no basis in science
| >>138583 Not all girls. It's natural to have a dominant and a submissive in a relationship. The dominant is sometimes the woman. Strong women will sometimes look for weaker counterparts to control or care for. Sometimes women want a less threatening male.
| Second the notion that not all girls want "alpha" guys. Focus on doing what makes you happy. Find a hobby that you can share with others maybe. When you feel comfortable with yourself, others will start to take notice. I know it sounds vague, but self-expression/confidence is a very personal thing.
| Affection starts from you toward yourself, then to others and eventually back to you. Yeah, it sounds weird and awkward, but it's true. So you're feeling inferior? Yeah? That's okay. That doesn't make you any less masculine. If being inferior worked like that, only 1 guy "deserves" to be happy/alpha/a man/whatever.
| Get your development team motivated so they can release the final version of you
| What kind of stupid asshole gives a shit about any of this.
| Yeah, this is basically like using virginity to judge a value of a persob. No one cares, and because alpha/non virgin is hailed as the best, people start hiring prostitute/ get in bed with random people to get rid of their virginity. Which defeat the purpose of the virgin/non virgin scale.
| The whole alpha beta thing is just toxic. Live as you please and stop giving a fuck what people think if you don't actively want them to be a part of your life. Last I checked, I wasn't born to please anyone and it rarely concerns me if I do. The only "alpha" that should matter is yourself, because only you control yourself.
| Step 1: stop making threads like this.
Step 2: stop subscribing to inferior ideologies of sexual social hierarchy
Step 3: legally add α to the end of your first name.
Step 4: after a few good firmware updates when you're ready for some more people to test you, add β to the end of your name, replacing α.
Step 5: after sufficient debugging, remove the β from your name, in order to let the public know this is a full release version.
Congratulations, you've stopped being beta!
| Op here, I want to stop being a beta butbI don't want to be an alpha, that's a downgrade
I want to be a gamma or an omega
| Anyone who unironically calls himself "alpha" or "beta" is worse than a local neighborhood fuckboi
| contrasting point: not believing in alphas makes you beta
| >>139050
I'm alpha as fuck. Fuck you!
Also, if you want to be an alpha, eat lots of meat because testosterone
| Hah jokes on you, high amounts of testoterone lead to male pattern baldness!
| >>139641 that's why you have to go the other way and get more estrogen to achieve that trap aesthetic. Everyone loves cure fembois right?
| clean your room.
slay the dragon.
get the girl.
buy my carpet.
More seriously, try eliminating the things you worry about, you'll feel better and you'll become more confident. Do some exercise and get a job.
| Try steroids. They sorta kinda make your testosterone spike.
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