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Age difference
| Ah, she is more of a regular at this bar. She knows most of the people who go there while I only know her and 2 other people and dont go there very often. I dont know if this is relevant but it still is a fact.
| If I were her I'd consider 38 wayyy too old tbh.
| just go for it
| >>129099 I would say "What's the worst thing that could happen" but based on what's been on the news lately I would say don't bother, not worth the headache if it goes south.
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| >Only 12 years.
Eh, if she's into older men, it could work.
| Well... Im 20 and im dating to a... 14 yo...
12 years isnt that much or is it?
Just... Be careful of which kind of girl is she.
| >>129178
What. Are you sure the 14 y.o. understand what's he/she doing? I'm not judging, but that sounds perilous.
As for op, that's not as dangerous, but, yeah, gotta see if the girl's into older men or not.
| OP here.
Thanks for the replies.
Well I actually dont show my age and look like 30-32. And 5 years ago I was with a 22 year old. But somehow it feels different now.
But yea I need to see if shes interested and if not just carry on. But shes such a sweetheart and it saddens me that she is not mine. :|
| age is social construct and doesn't matter. love knows no boundaries. I am more concerned what 38 year old is doing here though...
| If she's not underage go for it but don't make a life insurance or she may kill you
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| There is no shame young'un I am a 67 year old man who dates a 6 year old little girl
| >>129172
eh, doesn't really work like that. it's usually kind of weird, but sometimes older guys are just really attractive.
>>129099
OP, just be a human, i guess? if it feels weird, don't try to force anything; just be a friend and things might come of it naturally
| >>129764 can confirm, even tho I'm a lesbo I suck old man dick and then kill them when they put me on their will
| Op I'm so damn sorry these posts are hijacking your thread
| Op, just go for it, but keep in mind you two are in different stages in life. You may want different things from a relationship than her.
| Welp if it helps I'm 24 and I would date a 38 year old woman, but that's REALLY pushing it for me.
| what kinda cuck are you
| Me and my girlfriend were 16(me) and 13(her). 7 years later and were still together. Dont let an age gap (within reason) keep you from finding someone who could potentially be the one for you.
| >>135927 I dunno, 3 years didn't seem much but you were basically dating a preschooler while you were old enough to drink (in Europe at least)
| OP here.
Three years. Well that reminds me of another fact, that the girl's ex bf is 4 years younger than she is and they were together for a year.
I have not seen her during this las week despite going to that bar 3 times.
Yea I will see how it will proceed. As much as I feel like I want to hug and squeeze her tight when I see her, I will be calm and try to read her intentions. I actually suck at that but I guess it is the best thing to do.
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| I am 38. Recently I have met this 26 year old girl. We meet ocasionally at a bar we both go and she told me today she has broken up with her bf, 3 weeks by now.
I like her but have no idea if she likes me.
Advise g/u/rls. I feel reluctant to advance to find more also because of the age difference. What do you suggest I do?