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| Abandoning him aint an option btw.
| "I'm lesbo"
| A man doesn't want or need friendship from a woman.
| If it's an issue just call him out on it
Either he'll stop or he won't
| Well to be honest petite female pussy is the best so I cant blame him and I would do the same. You see, when you are an old friend already that someone trusts and knows and there comes an age of maturity that you fit into their erotic archetype, it becomes powerful. It is to fall in love with. He sees you like a real dreamgirl that he didnt know how to appreciate before, feels like shit and grudgeful to himself for this and now wants to win you back.
| He will not stop. This thing can last for years and he might not even be interested in other girls because of you all over your mind.
You must be sick hot, in his eyes and mine. Poor fellow. :(
| All over his mind*
| >>127977 shit, so basically it's the girls' fault for filling all the guy's fetish and for not liking the guy, this reminds me of victim blaming.
| if a man likes you and he's already head over heels , he will do anything , even the craziest shit
IMO , tell him directly about your concern , or end the friendship.
| >>127987
You must be an idiot to read all that and think of faults. I was explaining the situation as seen from the other side. Are you american?
| just say I want you as just s friend nothing more. If he is a true friend he will understand
| >>128019
Yeah basically this, pull up your pants and hit him with the awkward combo and tell him to chill. If he really wants to be your friend, he will. And if all he wants from you is a relationship then in all honesty the temporary pain of losing a friend is gonna be a lot easier than long term cringe and annoyance and the same pain you'll have when you have to cut it anyways.
| >>127999 Yeah, from the other side, in which you/the guy did nothing wrong. You/the guy are not innnocent here for being too clingy and not realizing that she's not comfortable with your treatment.
Heck, all things that I said was
>this reminds me of victim blaming
didn't say you are victim blaming, you are the one that get offended too easily and go up in arms like a true muricans, wanna sue me next?
| >>128023
The guy there has done nothing wrong indeed. He feels atracted to OP and she mentioned he is letting her know of it in very subtle ways. Of course she notices it and doesnt want it as she doesnt feel attracted to him sexually.
But obviously you have never developed strong feelings towards a friend or received such developments from a friend. You solve your problems with suing and calling the police.
It is a good thing OP is not of your mindset though.
| >>128032
>Recently got back into contact with him via Discord
>lonely guy that thinks petite female pussy is right for him
Yeah, he's SO SUBTLE that a girl that he just got back in contact after years know that he's lonely (and possibly horny) and JUST SO HAPPEN that the girl that he "subtly" tell his loneliness to is filling all his fetish/sexual preference.
| >>128032
>You solve your problems with suing and calling the police
Learn to read my g/u/rl, it was a sarcastic response to the g/u/rl who accused me of a stupid Americans, and all I did was deflecting the insult to her
| >>128038
I don't think you did. Your reply only reinforced what was implied. There is no fault in developing love from friendships, it has happened since forever and will happen till forever. You were the one to imply 'omg stalker' where others see a guy struggling with his own self and a girl worried about his state of affairs.
| >>128043
Yeah, just keep throwing your personal insult at me without refuting any of my points, I even make sure to highlight the important points and you never really address them lol, and you call me dumb american
| >>128064 Well it doesn't help that there's a really obvious answer to this whole conundrum, which has been brought up multiple times, yet you haven't acknowledged them and instead shifted focus on being taken back by the "insinuation" that this could possibly be your fault to any extent, which no one was saying outside "Yeah guys tend to find people they're familiar with hot and feelings tend to develop with that familiarity".
| Call him to a dark ally with no cameras, tease him when he makes a move stab him and call the cops
Say he tried to rape and kill you but you managed to get the knife and he still tried to kill you so you stabbed him
You'll get freed for justified self defense and the perv will be gone
| >>128085 and you (idk if you are the same person or not at this point) also refuses to acknowledge that OP is not comfortable with this situation that you claim to be "normal" or "just a guys' tendency"
>... but he's still bugging me
>how do I have normalish convo without the constant bullshit
I don't oppose to the solution of "just tell him you are not interested"
I am opposed to this >>127952 and this>>127977
which basically say "it's normal, you don't have to do anything"
| And as pointed by this >>127977
Guy like that can cling on her for years, and (this is just my assumption) interpret her ignoring the situation because it's "normal" as a "yes", which potentially will make the situation even worse.
Set it straight OP, you are not interested, ignoring problems will just make it grows bigger.
| >>128113
No we are not the same person. As a true american you once again believe only what you say is right despite several people here pointing out you are not.
You can oppose what you like. The feelings described are certainly normal. That she should do nothing about it you simply pulled it out of your arse as basically everyone is telling her to speak to the guy. You like it or not, OP seems to care about this person.
Go raise a star spangled banner in your yard now.
| KILLING IS THE ANSWER
| >>128164
Again, none of my points are being refuted, amazing how many people don't know how to argue here despite how american I am
>you simply pulled it out of your arse
I am the one that keeps quoting OP and presenting arguments, while you are the one that keep throwing personal insult simply avoiding my points
| > basically everyone is telling her to speak to the guy
But you weren't
>>127952 >>127977 you are just relating yourself with the guy here, saying it's normal, and throwing a pity party at him
>>127999 >>128032 >>128043 >>128164
After that, all you do is throwing personal insult at me, while avoiding my points
| >>127871
That speaks she cares. While certainly she is annoied, the first post also tells me she is very confident and close with the guy. And she wants to talk to the guy like before, speaking also of sluts and dickheads like friends do, alongside serious stuff. And now she can feel his inability to do that without feeling weird for he sees her sexually and keeps on doing that. Her carefree and closeness to the guy doesnt mean she thinks him the lewd stalker you see.
| Stab him
Dip doritos on his blood
Blood dip tasty
He'll understand
Love means stabby time
He die
Your body is safe
Doritos blood dip tasty
| I think it shouldn't be that hard, girls I liked before rejected me but somehow I kept talking with them after years without any problems, they even invite me to parties and travels just like in any normal friendship.
| Tell him to just knock it off, set your bounderies and if he doesn’t understand that you just want to be friends cut him off
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| I have this friend who is 20 somethin, I'm 18, we've known each other from school up until he graduated and moved away. Recently I've got back into contact with him via Discord. My problem? He's a lonely guy that thinks petite female pussy is right for him, and yeah now he's trying to get me to date him, only subtly. I've shown no interest but he's still bugging me sorta. How do I have a normalish convo with my friend without the constant bullshit?