Post number #126714, ID: 7338b2
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I'm the same person from the "I don't want to live anymore" thread a bit back. Anyway, I was studying yesterday with the only real friend I have outside the internet. I've already told her how bad my depression's been. Since then she's been telling people who joke about suicide and stuff to not, but yesterday she joked about killing herself. I'm still upset about that joke, but I feel like I'm overreacting. What should I do?
Post number #126726, ID: 894bbe
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Breathe nugga, breathe
Post number #126733, ID: 3a6548
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Sounds like you're being overly sensitive. Read some books about WWII or something. Put things in perspective.
If you can't learn to laugh at yourself, you'll never be happy.
Post number #126774, ID: 7711f7
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Was she joking?
Schools usually have counselors or mental health experts but they're often bad, but they're included in tuition. Though, when I went to my school counsellor they just refetred me because they 'didn't give long term care.' Blech.
If you can afford it, good psychotherapy will be a hell of a lot of help, if not you're gonna have to figure out what to do on your own. Maybe start a diary or something so your feelings don't just get bottled up until they burst?
Post number #126781, ID: 7338b2
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I've been taking meds for about a week now, and I did talk to my friend whenever I felt like I couldn't take it anymore. I've told her about my suicidal thoughts, and she's always said I've made her life better and stuff like that.
Post number #126786, ID: 7338b2
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I guess it just feels like she betrayed me in a sense. I trusted her with all the fucked up shit going on in my head, and she turns around and jokes about the very same thoughts that plague my mind every single day.
Post number #126806, ID: a3e204
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Friend like to joke it to make the mood lighter. Your friend might just want fo look it as a past and light your mood up with a joke. Just tell her that you don't like that kind of joke and move on to the next topic.
Post number #126977, ID: 01f934
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>>126786 She's your f r i e n d, right? She just made a mistake. Regular people don't have psychological education. Let her know that her joke didn't help at all but fogive her. If you push her away you're going to be alone and it's way worse.
Post number #126994, ID: 98c786
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Ask her out, confess your love in a beautiful sunset, get married, never feel depressed again because real love can do miracles
Post number #127007, ID: d72b8d
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She has done more than enough to deserve making a mistake or two. That wasn't even a mistake, stop being a baby
Post number #127049, ID: dae515
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Marry her! Opxthisgirl
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| I'm the same person from the "I don't want to live anymore" thread a bit back. Anyway, I was studying yesterday with the only real friend I have outside the internet. I've already told her how bad my depression's been. Since then she's been telling people who joke about suicide and stuff to not, but yesterday she joked about killing herself. I'm still upset about that joke, but I feel like I'm overreacting. What should I do?