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How to let your friend know, that you don't feel the same way they feel about you but in a nice way
| at moments like this just be honest, if he/she is a true friend he/she will understand
| Yea but i keep feeling awful for him that once this stops, we'll surely not be friends anymore and i don't want that to happen
| Yeah pretty much. I had feelings for a friend once, confessed, and was turned down. Even after that it wasn't awkward or anything. We're still close friends, albeit now not so much. But that's because my group of friends split into different colleges and countries even and got no time to play games. That's a whole different thing though, for kinda sidetracked
| Am i bad person? Because i feel guilty that i know his past was rough and he might go back to the way he was before if i reject him now
| Aww shit, I used to be on the same boat, sorta. Eventually I just kinda broke it to him in a bad way and it broje him. He ended up wrecking shits aaaand I managed to do some damage control, but we don't talk anymore.
Hope you have better luck than me
| >>120569 i don't think he'll do that, but i feel like he'll be depressed and stuffs, which i don't know how to deal with
| I get a feeling you're a girl and he's a boy. Girls often make this mistake, assuming that friendship between genders can last, without escalating or breaking. That's very rarely the case. The sooner you break it off, the better for him.
| Yu du not no de we
| I'm kind of going through the same thing you are and it really is hard knowing their past, how they'll react to rejection and just wanting to stay with them as friends, but as they said, it's better to break it off if they ever confess or make it clear even before. Just make sure not to lead them on.
Best of luck to you.
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| So i have this friend, we talk everyday and he keeps giving hints about how he feels about me, i don't feel the same way and i don't know how to react to it