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How to cope with being unattractive?
| Idk
I just kinda internally hate everyone prettier than me(99% of the planet, probably you included)
| Wait few years and it won't matter, everyone is ugly when old. Meanwhile understand, that only thing your beauty dictates, is how attractive partner you can choose. Most likely, you'll have to settle for someone as ugly as you are. If you really care that much, there's always plastic surgery, it does wonders.
| be smart, that attracts people
| masturbate
| There are actually a lot of ways to compensate for natural ugliness.
First off diet and exercise. There's a ton of people who can tolerate a butterface if they've got a nice bod.
Skin and hair care can do wonders for your appearence. Daily facial cleansing and moisturizing can completely change your looks, especially if you have a lot of blemishes or dry skin. (be careful not to use any cleansers that are too rough. Gently rubbing your face with cold water twice a day works fine)
| If all that fails and you're still ugly, you can start using makeup to improve your appearence. Generations of ugly women have relied on make up for centuries, it's tried and true.
But tbh most people who talk about how ugly and hideous are actually look fine, and just have shitty personalities that people find repulsive.
| Totes agree with >>119989.
You should learn about fashion, how to take care of your skin, wear make up (yes, even boys (if they exist...?) should wear makeup). Reddit has some great resource: /r/makeupaddiction, /r/streetwear, /r/skincareaddiction, /r/asianbeauty, /r/femalefashionadvice, etc.
| Stop looking at the mirror, with some time your self esteem will be on the ceiling
| Btw, this only works if you're a hikikomori
| I spent my whole life thinking I was ugly and stupid, and it turns out I'm smart and pretty.
| Actually have a good personality. You have no idea how many attractive girls I know are just airheads and the crush I have ain't snow white either.
| I just embrace who I am. If I'm going to be an ugly otaku shut-in, I'll be the best damn otaku shut-in I can be.
| >caring about appearance
why tbh. nobody actually cares.
| In addition to >>119989: Smile. Be happy. At least looks happy. Look friendly. I might be biased 'cause I'm not good with faces, but it's always been people's expression/demeanor that really make that first impression.
| >>120126 nice so I just have to bang my head in the wall until my vision gets distorted or a synapse snaps!
| >>120330what if it is my smile that makes me ugly, when I smile I look like some psychopath at best and someone who done a botched plastic surgery at worst
| >>120380
Smile with your eyes then, or something. The point is, make yourself look approachable.
But don't fake it either, do it on your terms. I think people with psychopath smiles are attractive, so if you can own that smile, why the hell not.
| If you have great personality, that enough compensates for what you lack in the beauty department
but if you're like me, stay the hell away from mirrors, that way you'll forget about being unattractive
| Hairstyle changes so much. I see too many guys with just untouched mops of hair. General rule? get some antidandruff conditioner. Go to a barber and cut off half of your current hair. Buy some pomade and rub a finger tip of it messily into your roots
Instant style
| Hot stuff right now is undercuts and pompadours. Look to celebrities like Joe Keery, Oscar Isaac, and Steven Yeun
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