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I want to be in a relationship with someone weak
| >>118932 nope most people have this desire engraved into their minds by society
Though sone want a mentally weak partner instead of a physically weak one
It's part of humankind's hunger for power
| I don't buy that 'i jus want to protec mai waifu' crap for a second.
You just want someone weak to submit to you, who's powerless to resist your every desire. Even if she doesn't want it.
| I'll jump in and say that i'd personally prefer a partner who I could look up to as a role model, sort of in the sense that you're talking about op. Wouldn't want them to be an asshole is all.
Sadly for me, waifu hunting is a bit more difficult with these preferences.
| I want to be in a relationship with someone strong and reliable who can protect me. Be my partner op
But I'm also more comfortable with someone mentally weaker so I can take the leadership role idk, our lizard brains are weird
| Not necessarily, depends on the context and your detailed reasoning behind it. If you want to be controlling and dominating, which it doesn't sound like you do, then that might be concerning. Wanting to provide and help someone is more noble but if you want them to stay weak and dependent, I'm not so sure.
| Just kindve want one so I'll feel better. Sucks when s/he/'s stronger
| >>119068 Yeah, thing is people like that (including OP) doesn't really want to admit that they are dominant/ they treat woman like an object, because they know that's a bad thing to do. So they justify it by "Just protecting mai sweet waifu"
That way, they are not doing a bad thing, while also satisfying their dom fetish. Basically having a cake and eat it too.
| I would prefer to have a strong g/u/rl by my side. I mean, one who's not selfish, so she could protect me and all...
| I am dating disabled girl for this reason
| This is still fucked up. Wanting to be in a relationship with someone not because of who they are but because they make you feel strong and dependable and important... Really just despicable.
| Love is love it'll kill you regardless of the reasons so don't be ashamed and enjoy your life before she murders you to get the life insurance money
| if both people like each other why dues it natter wgat the reason is? the most important thing is that couple is happy
| Isn't it just the biological/social gender role? Man want to be, well, manly, they want to feel strong, courageous and in control. Woman want to be beautiful, gentle and caring. And not only is that what they wish to be like, they wish their partner to play their role too. Nothing wrong with that, that's who we are as humans.
| More interestingly, you can see people helping other gender to play the role. Woman sometimes will act little dumb or weak, like asking a man to open a jar. And same way a man will act insensitive and socially clueless.
| >>119550 I'm gentle, caring and am used to girls using me for being too naive>wink
>remembered there's no guys on the internet
Sorry I'm actually a g/u/rl
| >>119550 of course, but you don't want a man who is more gentle or caring than you are and man don't want to be in a relationship like that either. There are exceptions, of course, but generally that's how we are.
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| so that I can be the strong, reliable protector, provider figure.
Does that make me a bad person?