feel like my partner is pushing me away
| i really want to make the relationship work but every day i feel more and more that maybe they just subconsciously want me to leave or something and now that all of these ideas are in my head i can't stop thinking about it
| That's just how some people are. It's gonna be eternal pity party or you fucking hated them.
| State your and your partner's nationality, gender, sex and skin color to judge the situation correctly
| >>1102007 well yes, they are outsourcing even white nationalist larping to the brownest people these days
| >>7d2d72 You should communicate with your partner exactly about this, do it in calm, relaxed manner.
If your partner tries guilt-trip you, or doesn't take your thoughts as important, or tries to victimize themselves, or gets irrationally mad about you pointing out their behavior:
Then you should take that as a sign to truly leave them, or else you'll be miserable.
| (this reply below my serious post is a half-joking mandatory post to lighten the mood of this thread)
bpdemons don't deserve romantic partners, and if they want one, they should fucking pay them
| I think this is a subtle anti Russian thread, but if you say you respect Russian people:
What’s changed? Do you have similar goals for life? This seems sad :<
| >>ea420f thank you this is honestly good advice, i honestly dont know what to expect from them because they can be a bit volatile (not towards me but themselves) but I will try to talk about it eventually
| >>98dc63 dude what... where's the connection
(of course i respect russian people just as i do ukranians, i think they're both victims of an unjust war)
putting that aside, i'm not sure what changed honestly, i started thinking maybe they've always been like this and i'm noticing just now or something, or maybe i changed and i just can't tell
if by similar goals you mean careerwise then not really, they study arts (i love art) and i'm studying science
| She is a bpdemon, run
| i do think we share some goals, mainly leaving our homes and becoming independent, starting careers and possibly leaving my country of origin, starting a family and marrying, etc
| you look so pushable though , i would shove you away against soft things as well
| jokes aside
do they have attachement issue ?
the real question is are they capable to have a discussion with you on this topic with rationality and without getting too emotional
to resolve that
| >>406490 i'd say yeah they have some attachment issues, the day after seeing each other they start feeling like shit until a week later when we see eachother again
| >>09cccf yeah that, its not just "i miss you" its more like them being unable to enjoy literally anything and just lying in bed depressed if i'm not around
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| i've been in a relationship with my partner for a long time now (think somewhere between 1-3 years), i love them a lot but a few months ago they started taking every little action did or word i said as a personal slight against them or a sign that i don't love them anymore
it's come to the point where they even think i don't love them because i just don't have as much of a need for sex as them
is this normal? what can i do? i feel so lost