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I broke up with my boyfriend and now he's stalking me
| you could make a white list. so instead did blocking certain numbers, you allow only ppl from your white list to contact you. other than that I would try to talk him some sense into the brain or get help from /fbi/.
what ever you do, be careful and don't underestimate the situation <3
| >>106909
I found out I can block unlisted numbers in my phone, otherwise I guess I'll have to change my phone number, thanks g/u/rl
| You might try to ask his close friend or relative (work better if they saw his public comment) to tell him to give up on you and move on.
| Tell him that you feel stalked. If he still continues go to the police. If they don't help you get some bois who will beat him up/make him afraid of contacting you again.
Or be a strong g/u/rl and do it yaself.
| >>106948
He was an online boyfriend, never met him and we live in different countries. He just messaged me again saying he was gonna get his mom to phone me? Sad. I told him we were breaking up, not to contact me and to seek mental health services. I'll be changing my phone number soon
| You did your best OP, stay safe.
| Dont let your ex discover your new number OP
| Put phone on silent when you sleep. Be clear about why you broke up with him. Get a restraining order if it stays a problem.
| >>106962 Damn, sorry to hear that. Well have you stated your reasons clear why you broke up with him? Because if you did then he might can't get over it. Maybe you could try to talk sense into him by asking him if he'd like it if the one who he may already have broken up with would act like this.
But if you do not want to be in contact with him anymore then maybe block him anywhere and as soon as the call comes say that you broke up and that there is nothing to be talked about.
| >>106962 But yeah, else you did what you could. Either he accepts it or he needs mental support to get over it, from others. Hope that you are going to stay safe and nothing happens to you.
| Thanks for the support everyone! I've already been blocking him everywhere and found a way to block his unlisted calls, I knew he would come after me like this as soon as I started to try and explain why I wanted to end the relationship.y friends have been telling me that he was being abusive, I'm kinda clueless in relationships but I guess it's good I got out, you know?
| Tell him you found some one else. Or something. If you ever get to forward a message to him or want to at all. It'll make him back off.
| Yeah good on you for getting out. Any one who acts like that after probably isn't the best person.
| An abusive relationship is not a good relationship. But now that you found out how to block his calls and avoid contact, take your time. Do the things you want to do and be "free"
| >>107110
Yea, this helps in many cases. When spineless bois like your ex, OP, learn that you already are with someone else, they feel more than cheated. Their sense of ownership (people like that think they own you) gets hurt. A side effect is that they will feel angry and quite hateful. But then again you don't give a f** anymore for someone like that, so if that will make him shit mad and eat his liver from anger, you just do it and smile your evil smile.
| >>107442
I mean I do care... Also I heard from his friend that he's threatening suicide now... This is like the second break up in a row where they've done that, I need to find better guys lol
| it's the cheapest trick to force someone to stay with threatening suicide. they won't so it. just don't care about that bloke anymore. pls be strong
| True.. It ain't your fault g/u/rl. You also have feelings, desires and the right to do what your feel like. If he is threatening with suicide than the problem lays on his side, and it kinda is like trying to force you into something you may not like.
Yeah you both were together, but if a relationship doesn't work anymore it doesn't work.. Either both try to fix it or they leave since maybe it's better to stay apart. Like I said, you did all you could.
| Easy solution: just kill him yourself. ^_^
| Don't get tricked by the suicide threat. Stay strong and remember you broke up with him for an important reason. And you know it happens. You find shitty people, but whats important is you realize that and move on to the actual not shitty/crazy guys.
| My ex gf did this. She used every resource available. Proxies. Encryptions. Social media. Emails. Phone numbers. Friends and family members. For a whole year.
It's not easy but you just have to ignore them at every turn. If you give them the slightest bit of hope, they'll hold on to the bitter end.
Best of luck, Anon.
| Find friends and distractions.
| STAY STRONG OP G/U/RL
| >>108611 jeez, I feel sorry for you, and I hope the same doesn't happen to me but I found out he contacted my mother so...
>Everyone else
Your support has been so amazing I'm amazed, thank you!
| I feel bad for him, hope he gets better soon.
| Pills are his lord and saviour naw
| The replies are really good. O can even feel all the despise this guy gets as it was directed to me. Now i know why he needs help.
| >>106948 >>107442 >>108433 >>108496
Truly shows the feminine thoughts about men. I'll even screenshot them.
| >>109128 Hey, I respect your thoughts and opinion on this, but what means that if shows the feminine thoughts.. I would not centralize it since every human being thinks differently. And as soon as someone says or thinks something which may sounds similar to this what those nasty modern feminism girls preach, I wouldn't relate or connect to them. This third wave of feminism movement is kinda useless anyway, the second wave already managed to change much in the favour of girls. -_-
| >>109128
Normally I'd go along with the meme but since this seems serious because you might be a newfag let me just say it. Because being a girl on here is a meme you can't assume the gender of these people, even if they're saying they're feminine. It could be guys changing their pronouns to pretend to be girls for the meme, I could actually be a guy talking about his stalker girlfriend
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| I asked him not to contact me but then not only does he leave a public comment about how I 'misunderstood' but he calls me at 4 am on an unlisted number and wakes me up! Any other g/u/rls on here have the same experience? And to any of you (probably fake) boys out there, don't act like this! It's annoying as fuck.