( Love ) I'm tired
| To add ons, the cause of breakup is due to me giving her space and time to finish her exam. This led to 6 days of her disappearing completely before a sudden "let's break up"
| I doubt that's the cause of the breakup. The most common reason for couple breaking up is that one fell out of love with the other. The truth might hurt you more but it sounds like she stopped loving you and decided it was best for both of you to break up.
Your online friends aren't "leaving you". They have their own lives and sometimes people drift apart. This happens to everyone. Most of my friendships have had breaks that lasted for years before we reconnected.
| Being constantly misunderstood is a sign of autism by the way.
| You made a good point. She has been acting different for 4 months now. I was hoping that's not the case but that probably is..
That 2nd paragraph made me feel better even if a bit. People definitely comes and go, and it's not the end of the world when I lose some friends
Also I didn't know being misunderstood often is an autism thing lmao. I suffered from BPD for 3 years back in middle to highschool so maybe it did something more than I thought to my brain
| I wonder who you can get closer to now that they are gone :)
| skill issue
| I feel for you, OP
It's a shame when a break up turns ugly because of one of you and/or third parties' fault
I can only wish you take a breather and try to move on from that, slowly but surely.
I wish online relationships were less volatile... And I say this as someone that is often "the person who drifts apart/the one who disappears" from online spaces
Sometimes we all need to take a breather
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| I just broke up with my gf after years of being with her. Due to her being very emotional, one of my ex friend got her to resent me and now they're spreading a lot of misinformation everywhere. My friends ( online ) I've known for years are leaving me one by one
I've never abused or cheated on my gf yet I'm still forced to swallow the worst emotion I've known in life
What am I doing wrong to be misunderstood like this since I was a kid
I'm tired of being misunderstood