Oh gosh! Save me.
| >Gets isolated to cut of connections.
>Family neglects you so much you're isolated from expressing yourself in a proper language.
>Never taught some proper manners.
>Never taught critical thinking.
>Never taught any sort of independence.
>Be left with nothing to express yourself.
>Be considerated as a pathological liar from a period of depression.
| That’s terrible hug hug
Are you doing ok? Can you reach out to people to get away from this person?
| >>1052369
Oh god real. I had a big cry yesterday talking to my dad who was kinda ok with me having my own future and I feel so much better but I don’t know if anything fundamentally changed
| Sound like someone I'd date.
| Before anything you'd need to teach the person what trust even is.
| >>1052374
I relate to Being unable to express myself and toxic people and feeling so mentally crippled. I’m feeling better lately, after crying about it but getting some words out about it in a supportive environment. I’m not sure I’ve actually grown as a person and that worries me. I think therapy might help OP if they got to have the experience I did of really talking about that pain and being reassured they matter. Because she does.
| We had a thread that touched on some of these bullet points but it didn't catch on. https://dangeru.us/u/thread/1051768
I see your raw expression of distress and the need for recognition and understanding of your situation. It sounds like you've been through a lot, and these experiences have obviously deeply affected you. Feeling treated like a tool or being at the mercy of manipulative individuals can be incredibly disheartening and I know that from experience.
| I know it feels to be isolated and cut off from connections, both with others and in terms of expressing yourself fully. I can empathize with your feelings of neglect, not being taught essential skills for independence, critical thinking, or social interaction. Those are significant aspects of personal growth that can shape how we navigate the world.
| I can also empathize, with personal experience, with how frustrating it feels to be denied the professional help you need, especially when health issues come into play, and to have your privacy violated. It’s completely valid to feel overwhelmed by circumstances that lead to unhealthy habits or toxic relationships as well.
| It’s important for you to know that your feelings and experiences are valid, and it’s okay to express them. If it feels safe and right for you, consider reaching out for support from someone who can help you process and navigate these feelings further, but reaching out to us is a good step if nothing else works. You don't deserve to suffer from these experiences and hardships in solitude. You deserve to be heard and to find a way forward that honors your experiences.
| What you've shared is obviously due to a systemic lack of empathy, understanding, and professionalism from the individuals who are supposed to help. For instance when seeking care it is of utmost importance to feel safe and to know that one’s concerns are taken seriously. It is so tragic that the narrative is instead marked by a sense of misunderstanding and a lack of genuine willingness to help.
| >>1052408 Those were assumptions and guesses. They fell far from a relitable and relatable knowledge and insights. Although it has wiseness, it can say nothing about other side it doesn't know any of.
>>1052411 That would be fantastic if only the clearest issue wasn't there.
| >>1052412 It's called creating a character capable to get through the pain of spikes that has been posed as a starting gate. When it growns from a defensive position, it start to inflict pain as the guards of the others are let down. There are tasteful delicacy that are seeken, but to hold my own sanity has also been a great subject of my curiosity to keep it dear as I went through my path, I've been craving more of that experience.
| If it's not given nor indicated, any more of it would result miserable to gasp on.
The pain is the result of commitment from the lack of trust, a result of a life filled with naive beliefs meeting the many betrays a reality can offer. A missguided compass now appears, the intentions are to make the best use of it and figuring what your knowledge has been lack of for so many years.
| It has been learned that seeking help was a display of weakness when starting out, thus it lead to a self serving behavioring. A lack of trust deepened as the less collaborations were ever given an inch to show of. And the remarkable reality become the show.
| Desperate actions has been displayed in shame, but the clues have been shown to differ from the hope, as exploring the caves new kind of knowledges has been seen. Soon enough everything had to be learned again and again. The ignorance of an individual was showing constantly in the mirror the had to keep their eyes on. Laughs echoes in their own mind making a instinct of pure interest of progressing the sole leading guide for the unknown reality that has been posed upon the person.
| >>23773a
Ooh, it's you. I geninely take back everything I said. You deserve your spot because you put yourself in it. I didn't read anything after your first sentence by the way because I know it's gonna be "misguided" nonsense.
I regret being kind to you and I would mute you if it was possible.
| >>1052424 It'd be more sensible to be clear with your intentions from the start instead of making guesses that would lead to more beliefs that can't be followed up with.
| The place here is not for seriousness. You have to keep your own sensibility and ego for yourself here. It's about entertainment and jesting. I wish you'd understand this.
| Do you want to keep going? I may humble some if so you desire.
| I wonder who am I going to be present with.
| If only some direct communication was given to me within all these years we would've been able to fix any doubt and belief going on. But then the prideful have to move on and think for themselfs.
| >>1052411
I think this is really true and well said. Thank you for making such a nice post.
>>1052413
Oh? What’s the clearest issue that isn’t that? For me I think most of my problems relate to feeling invalid and anxiety so it lines up with my problems but it’s good if you can see things clearly for you!
>>1052427
I think it’s both- to be a little silly but still keep your g/u/rl heart and be proud of what you said
| >>1052422
I don’t think this is so simple- I think seeking help is good when it works and you feel better and start getting better and it’s bad when people just feel burdened and nothing changes. It’s never going to be all one or the other. Do you want to post about your day and how you want to change here or something? I didn’t really understand some of your posts, but everyone deserves to be a happy nice g/u/rl
| Dialectic skill issue
This thread is closed.
| >Gets treated like a tool on meeting.
>Be left at the mercy of any sort of manipulative individual.
>Throws you in some months of fatigue where each one does one duty less than the other.
>Hates your commitments.
>Pushes you a guy and an old junk to spy on your privacy.
>Holds you from getting professional help when having an injury that would lead to a permanent disability on your performance.
>Tries to get you addicted to garbage.