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Parentification
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I don't know, but is there a way to balance your most important priorities? for instance, you could make it clear you'll provide a certain level of support, and expect certain things you want in exchange? Or I could be totally wrong and you just need to accept the loss of the parent and children, or the loss of your own goals. I'm always on the side of quantitative though. like if there are particularly time consuming or strenuous things you're doing, you could set a boundary.
| Pull out reverse uno card on them.
| Wtf is this me? Am I OP? I should take my med god damn
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| It's too loud in here with all the voices
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| Personally I had to just leave. Doing that shit to your child is disgusting. Mental illness is no excuse for it. Since you been dealing with this I'd assume you're mentally ill too, but you're not ruining people's lives cause of it, no?
They need to grow up. It was fully their choice both to bring you into the world and use you like that. They need to deal with the consequences of their actions imo
Ik it's hard to leave, but feeding that shit is a slow but certain death
| >>1024468 tyvm, will keep this as a mental sticky note when the time comes <3
>>1023616 it's the type of thing where boundaries are ignored or seen as harmful.
| Rooting for you
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| What do you do when your parent turns you into a parent, both emotionally and in terms of responsibility.
I really wanna cut and run but they've built their entire shit on me and my sister. Like one large Jenga block called kids.
Also a little more complicated, as they are mentally ill and negative stuff will cause then to doom spiral and become sui.
Fml