How do you cope with being a victim of crime with 0% chance for legal retributions or reparations?
Post number #1013916, ID: 22c922
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It's slowly tearing me down and killing my soul. This is the worst and I just want to die.
Post number #1013920, ID: fe203c
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If legal retribution isn't happening, maybe it's time for extralegal retribution.
Post number #1013923, ID: 6b0017
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what crime? you might have options
Post number #1013924, ID: ae8ba4
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if no other options show up, just move on. Cut any connection to the case. Let it hurt you for a week max and close the book. Unless you're about to die from it. A tragedy or two happens to everyone, make it a lesson to become stronger.
Post number #1013925, ID: 22c922
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>>1013920 No, never in a thousand years. If anything I've grown even more ethical because of all this mess. I'm talking asperger-level of dedication when it comes to upholding my principles. I drew the line in the sand and I refuse to cross it.
>>1013923 There are several crimes, all commited by hospital employees and it's almost impossible to win cases like these in this country. It's a genuine problem here that the politicans won't take seriously.
Post number #1013933, ID: ff90c7
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Have sex and have fun.
Post number #1013939, ID: bf818d
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If you can't get any criminal restitution, you may have options by suing the perpretator in civil court. You can also get restraining orders and other stuff as needed. If it's really bad, you may just have to move cities :/
Post number #1013963, ID: 917ebb
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Get that shit viral on social media, you might have a fighting chance.
Post number #1014027, ID: 5807a9
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>>1013963 sadly this is usually the only way to get private corporation to actually care about shit
Post number #1014041, ID: 72dc5e
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Unironically, stirring a fuss on social media or local TV or other media might be a good way to make the fuckers pay. It's extrajudicial retribution, non-violent edition. I'd say it's the best way to go forward if you are willing to put your time and effort into it.
Post number #1014045, ID: ca34a8
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I wish I knew g/u/rl
Post number #1014148, ID: 22c922
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>>1013924 I can't cut any connection to the case because where I live we only have one realistic option and therefore cutting the connection would be a loss.
I get what you're trying to tell me though, if this was like a friendship thing, stranger thing, or privately owned company thing you can cut your connection, move on, and put faith in that smart people will see trough the bullshit and understand the true situation. But this is not the realistic case here.
Post number #1014150, ID: 22c922
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>>1013933 I have some sex(toxic goth girl ex) and sometimes hookups from a not-toxic ex working girl (but rarely, aka when she can't get laid) and this doesn't make me feel better at all. It won't solve anything and I'm not having fun, despite one of my exes being a genuinely good person.
>>1013939 Moving cities is an option, but it costs too much and isn't a guarantee. I have looked at suing but in my country only 7(!) cases have ever won in court so the burden of proof is really
Post number #1014151, ID: 22c922
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-cont the burden of proof is really high. Too high to be realistically possible.
>>1013963 This is an option but there are some hurdles. Not everyone can get recognition on social media, especially not me with my aspergers. I have aleady made some connections trough smaller focus-centric sites though, so that's something. I just wish more people had a solution-oriented mindset but they all just want to complain and whine......
Post number #1014152, ID: 22c922
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>>1014041 My country is too small to have influential local media or local TV, but your advice is still VIP quality. My effort mostly lies in "catching up" everyone else in my situation to prevent suicides or possible destructive actions. It would break my heart if anyone in my situation would act out in a desctructive manner like terrorism or murder or even... i dunno, burning down dry forests or something? Whatever destruction actions these minds can think of.
Post number #1014154, ID: 22c922
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>>1014045 Me too, and me and all my peers are suffering for it. You wanna know something shitty? Back before I used to be depressed people told me stories about *my exact situation* and I only half-believed them. I figured our state-owned company can't be 100% wrong and that there has to be something that these people did that would warrant such a reaction. But then when I needed help and found out that it's 100% toxic bullshis it was too late.
Post number #1014155, ID: 22c922
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>>1014154 These 2 people both commited suicide, and a third one commited suicide and despite me not knowing her too well I figured she would've been alive today if it wasn't for these fuckheads. Obviously more people have died/suffered because of them.
I'll let you all know I live in the middle of the bible belth and this is because of a locally state-owned psychiatric care with 4(!) people running the whole thing.
Post number #1014157, ID: 22c922
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I don't know what to do. I'm one of those unlucky fucks who have enough ENPs to be inable to ignore injustice and other unethical shit simply because we are wired that way. Obviously we have trouble fitting into todays modern societiy with how unethically you're expected to act.
And it almost broke me. Almost***. One mistake these losers did was to underestimate me and my mind. People rarely seem to think this when they interact with me but I'm a member of -
Post number #1014158, ID: 22c922
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mensa. Even though I'm scatterbrained and have to put effort into things normal people take for granted, I have a skyhigh fucking IQ, and can see trough these imbecilles lies and bullshit. I mean, some of them seem to completely lack common sense??
Even though this has almost broken me, I take pride in having *genuine* entregity when it comes to right and wrongs. Today, I spoke with someone who doesn't work directly with them but adjecent to and she said and I quasiquote:
Post number #1014161, ID: 22c922
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>"The wrong people will have what's coming to them. I don't want to talk too much about my colleagues too much but, these 'wrong' people won't be staying here too long."
and isn't that fucking great? Or at least it's something? I doubt everyone will get their consequenses but what she told me *today* makes me feel like the worst of the worst won't be able to influence their moron mentailities on any other people in power anymore.
Post number #1014162, ID: 22c922
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tl;dr I've been fighting an unethical destructive behemoth at the cost of my very soul and today I got confirmation of a partial victory
Post number #1014227, ID: 416cb1
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*burg signal into the clouds*
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