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Why is rape considered wrong/bad?
| It's a forced sex. Sex hurts as hell unless you softly do it. Rapist doesn't care about their partner so it's painful. Actually, they might even like it to be suffering.
| If you have to ask this question then just hang yourself.
| ^
| why is forcing a sexual act on someone who doesnt want/ consent bad? Idk dude it doesnt take a genius.
| Who hurt you OP? Why did you become like this?
| Because we are in a era where people have rights, or a great percentage of the world population. Well in resume depends from the place you are if rape it's bad or "normal"
| Ok so I'm a 17 years old dude and I was raped at the age of 7 or 8 (can't remember clearly) and I didn't sufferd from it.
| >>100771
That doesn't justify those that actually suffer from mental and physical problems from it. Your statement is the same as "My phone didn't break when I lightly simmer it to water, why did yours break?" — it's a blanket statement and should not be used to represent all that has experienced rape.
| I mean if a woman is raped (I don't know how to say it) from her vagina she can still feel the pleasure but I was a kid who was anal raped and I didn't killed my self for it
| If the woman has gained pleasure from that sexual act how can she be damaged mentally?
| >>100774
Yes, I wholly get the statement you are going for here. But your experience, as valid as it is, cannot simply cover the entirety of those that has been raped.
A woman can be assaulted physically if she were ti resist. At this point on, her pleasure is mixed with radiating pain and a will to break free; it is not okay, and should never be said as 'okay.'
| (I swear if this is a bait, I'm going to slam my head onto my desk.)
| >>100779 I'm not talking about physical pain I totally understand the physical pain but not the psychological
| >>100783 Any pain, given enough force, will cause psychological pain as well. ie. remembering and calling that moment that you have the pain.
| >>100783
I don't think psychological trauma is "stupid" — imagine yourself being, let's say, mugged or being held hostage. Not the same thing, /I know/, but at least you can think of this "trauma" that I'm talking about.
And as >>100784 said, any kind of pain can give a psychological pain should it be given enough force.
| you are really disgracing 17 y.o right now, just because you liked getting a dick up your ass as a kid, doesnt mean others arent affect by someone forcing you to have sex with them
| Imo, rape is bad as it is. Sex is mostly about feeling "next lvl" close with your partner. Rape just fucks this up really hard, cuz some ppl after being raped can't enjoy their loved ones in this way because of bad experience and this is really sad.
| >>100784 so date rape drugs shouldn't cause any psychological pain right? (If you didn't see this question)
| the "pain" of rape, except in extreme cases, has little to do with physical pain; it's the dehumanising experience of being seen and treated as an object by another person. a part of why this experience should hurt women this way more often than men is a sexually-dimorphic psychological divide in both personal relations and experience of sex. though obviously not a universal split, when a man is harmed or "shamed" somehow by another, he is likely to turn his anger outwards…
| >>100801
…towards the other, while a woman is more likely to turn her anger inwards, meaning a traumatic incident like a rape can lead to lots of shame and self-blame/hatred. as for why the experience itself is often more traumatic, that lies more in a difference in experience of sex itself. to most women, sex is an emotional act: that is, any pleasure is reliant on there being a strong emotional connection and the right "mood". being raped is, obviously, the antithesis of both th…
| date rape drugs just make a bad experience worse, once you wake up, you have no idea what they did with your body. Man i was a stupid 17 y.o, but not this stupid.
| Don't ask the question OP, just do it and get arrested, THEN you can ask the question to the police and they'll explain it to you better.
| make sure you use "but im not traumatised" in court.
| >>100801 "treated as an object" this makes me ask another question.
Why are we special? I mean we are just monkeys who devolped the ability to talk and express our feeling through it.
If an animal kills another animal or a human kills an animal it's like nothing but if and human kills another human is treated as a monster?
| Apparently it's only considered wrong among us humans because we developed intelligence, therefore morality and a conscience. If we don't want something done to us, we deem it wrong if it happens. We also developed a different meaning for reproduction.
However, forced copulations make up half of all observed matings in the animal kingdom (excluding humans). Although there is no controversy there. Because it isn't our species we see it as any other casual reproduction of nature.
| >>100816
Sympathy and empathy. We are derailing here, but if you want to go first-year psych and bio here, then let me explain.
In its core, being able to sympathise with someone of your own species gives us the advantage to survive: this builds group, and in the wild, a group is stronger than being alone.
You can say this is a self-absorbed way of thinking, but nature doesn't care about that. Nature only cares if you can pass down your genes or not.
| …ese things, and the resulting feeling is the opposite as well. try to imagine, then:
1: a person who you either have no connection with or (worse) you had thought cared about you deeply treats you as an object, the equivalent of a chamber pot.
2: you are likely physically assaulted and in pain, which also means lots of adrenaline and hyper-awareness of this happening, but are powerless to stop it, adding to the "you are not a human; you are an object" feelings
| >>100807 how is it worse? If I use a date rape drug the woman is unconscious as so can't feel anything and I don't need to cause any physical harm
| i can smell this dudes fedora through my phone
| >>100816 Cuz every human being have a personality and a set of skills which can be offered to the society. Most of the animals can do that too, so killing animals is also somewhat prohibited nowdays. Hurting another being isn't very good because of morale rules which keep our society safe to live in.
| just because the person didnt feel anything while you forcively violated her privacy and body, doesnt mean they can act like it naver happened. Once they wake up they will probably be more in shock cause they know it happened, and they were abused. By how this is going, you are probably going to ask,"what if she was brain dead or just dead" well that would just be very disrespecting to the person she was and family, also necrophilia.
| >>100820
Imagine: Someone stole your pen. They put it into their anus and vagina for masturbation and soaked it with their blood and skins. Then they put it back to your back so you wouldn't know they stole it. You, however, feel that the pen is stinky and slimy and you saw someone putting something to your bag. What do you feel? Do you think it okay that they masturbate with your pen because you didn't truly know or feel it when they use it?
| >>100819
3: although you're gaining no pleasure from it at all, your body might still physically react in a way that looks like it does, which feels like even it is beyraying you. i've heard guys talk about erections being sort of similar sometimes, so imagine being in a conference room or something, giving a presentation to friends, coworkers, and a boss you really want to impress, being twrrified of messing up, and then realising you have the most obvious erection ever and ev…
| you are either a failure as a human or a troll, oh wait same thing
| >>100833
Yes, morality is unnecessary, for survival that is.
We, however, have long since past the day that we only live for survival.
| >>100840
morality is necessary for species survival. community mammals, human and non-human, all have moral systems their societies operate on. without those morals, such systems would fall apart (things like rampant in-killing → self-destruction). these things vary from species to species, population to population, and individual to individual, but they are consistently present and necessary factors
| it's not rape if pupils turn into hearts!
| >>100844
so, even if you're a psychopath and don't have the innate need to empathise with others, you should recognise that erasure of morals would destroy the society that keeps you alive.
psychopaths serve an evolutionary purpose also, by the way, so don't pretend you're "outside" or "above the system" somehow. a majority of empaths provide for system stability while a small subpopulation of psychopaths act as "instigators of change" for social mutations
| >>100838 not that high quality, it's just gurls here love taking the bait
we should have just responded with "No one think it's bad OP, do it, post pic here!"
| in modern societies, however, a small selection of those psychopaths have taken on a more dangerous role, latching onto hidden leach-points and metastasising, draining the society and providing no benefit, cheerfully overlooking that they'll be killing themselves off in the process once the food is gone.
| (though bait doesn't work as well on danger/u/ because the intention is that someone would rage or something. instead people get text walls of serious responses.)
| (which when you think about it isn't necessarily a bad thing.)
| It's anonymous board, we should never really take OP seriously. And that's the most expected reply "Haha I know you are joking. here, get a joke reply too"
OP usually would expect this response, so pretty much the one that get fooled is new people (like you)
| Messed up guy aside, the responses we're pretty legit. Don't rape anyone OP it's bad.
| Were*
| Honestly raping someone isnt exactly fun either. Unless the victim is out of it
| Rape is bad because
someone trespasses into your body.
Your body is your personal property. You should shot someone who comes uninvited, with a shotgun.
There, a reasoning OP can understand.
| But for the record, if you let someone in and decided they are unwanted, you must opt to shooing them out. If you use the shotgun in this situation, you're being quite an asshole, tbh.
| Also if someome shooed you out and you stay in you're also being quite an asshole. There is no exact science where to pull out the shotty, but it's recommended to do it asap.
| this is actually a pretty good metaphor all told.
| also because sex is gay
| How did this random troll topic get to 64 replies?
| >>101481
because it's a thing some people wonder in earnest and is worth expounding upon anywhere there's even the slightest possibility of increased awareness and understanding
| Besides rape being one of the worst behaviours of human on civilized societies; it's really interesting that we humans are "still animals" in great degree. Biology an Neuroscience teach us that the vast majority of all kind of evolutionary mechanisms converged in the modern human being. Thanks of the adaptations of the "inferior beings" we have the "best of the best"; but because, our bodies and our brains are still "attuned" to primal instincts and behaviours. So, {continues...}
| So, forceful sexual encounters, (female resists, male aggressively pushing forward) are a mechanism that helps to provide better genetic offspring, because only strong, and perseverant males can mate successfully.
And because this information are deep in our brains and in our DNA, it' s only normal that in sex, where instinct prevails over reason, and subconscious over conscious mind; that the fantasy, and even the consensual act of rape; is very strong stimulant, gives{continues}
| gives much pleasure, release a ton of suppressed emotions of the mind and body of a lot of woman and men who enjoy this practice. So, we still have this antique form of chemical gratification on our brains for useless mechanisms of preservation nowadays, like for example, anal sex. Very, very primitive gratification of the times we are sea polyps; creatures who eat, poop, and mate using the same hole. We can "wake" this gratifications paths on the brain, but, because, {continues.}
| because, when you use that, it's normal to feel animal and a pervert; that's not bad at all, we all NEED express, balance, and experience this, and a ton of more feelings. Because we are humans, we have will, we are self-conscious beings; and we have the potential to unveil the future and shape our own fates.
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| Banana hammock
| rape is bad. cmon op.
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