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What to do with opposite libidos?
| P.S. perhaps this post belongs to /d/, feel free to move it there
| I love sex.
| You might have to accept that you two will never have matching libido. You can include her in your own sexy times or do a lot of intimate foreplay with her so you two can feel close. But if she doesn't want to go all the way, that's just how she is, mate. She might prefer other sexual activities like giving/receiving oral or cuddling with a lot of touch. Or she could be stressed about something caused her sex drive to tank if it's a recent development.
| Anyway, it's something to talk about with your gf and for her maybe a doctor if it's seriously impacting the relationship. FYI, there's nothing wrong with either of you so enjoy the time you spend together either way! Best of luck, g/u/rl!
| Sounds like she either has a very low libido or some trauma.
>she gives head whenever you ask
Marry her
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| I live with my girlfriend and our sexual desires don't seem to match - I am often horny, whereas she gets horny only when she drinks. She doesn't mind jerking me off or even giving me head if I want it, but she herself doesn't want anything in return and it ruins the mood for me.
We do love eachother, and I am 100% certain she doesn't cheat or smth like that.
So any advice? We often talk about it but we haven't reached any conclusion yet, so I though a new perspective might help