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Good meeting spots

| I'm a shutin who hasn't really went out looking for anyone and now that I'm done with highschool I've come to realised how much I relied on other people approaching me.

My mental health has been getting slightly better but I've been thinking after most of this pandemic stuff is over where could I even go to meet people? Feel like hanging around my old highschool would be kinda creepy and pointless as I wanna move on from that place. But I don't know much of my city outside of that


| This is in /d/ because my ultimate goal is having my ass fucked.


| But I'm willing to start of small and just chat with others.

Recall seeing a lot of cafes on my way from home to school. So I dunno if that's a place to start, feel like walking up to someones table would be rude so maybe one with a pool table or something to play? Or one of those gaming cafes? (I suck at league, dots, CS:GO, and all the things ppl often play there. So maybe not)



| Now this is a good thread for incentivising lonely people to get out there, giving people places that have a higher possibility of meeting good people.

Reaching out to people is good


| >>738993 gaming cafe might be a good idea, try fiding people who are willing to help ypu train and improve at those games, this way you get to learn the game and meet someone. If you really dislike the popular games than how about playing a game you like and build a nieche group? Its might attract more people with similar tates


| >>738996 Definitly an idea yeah, will try doing CS:GO if only to fufil the slav stereotype.

But gamers can be a mixed bag so I'm unsure, another idea would be going to the library? Dunno again, as approaching people there might be rude as well. (where is it not rude to approach people?)


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There's a park with playground and sports equipment. Mostly kids and parents go there but might get to know someone by sharing? Working out is embarrassing tho imo, no one picked me during P.E so I don't like sports or anything like it


| >>739000 I dunno much about libraries sorry


| Some gyms have group excercises. Speaking from experience those activities are great for getting to know new people. During the summer some places even have outside exercises.

Martial Arts is also good. Just remember that you're there to train and the social aspects will come naturally. You can't really force these things.


| places like cafes and libraries are a little harder because you aren't there to do things WITH people, you're there to do things on your own around others. I feel like things like >>739009 are the best. you could also look into stuff like pottery or cooking classes, but that's probably more towards the meeting people for friendship side rather than the meeting people for banging side.


| I think, though, that after the pandemic is over, there's gonna be a lot of people looking to meet people, so maybe you could try a cafe as well. and, probably more important than location is willingness to try talking with a lot of people even if 90% don't even respond.


| most people that answer this question barely have an idea because nobody actually knows


| >>739094 haha, this is probably true


| >>739094 can't say no to this


| gay bars lmfao


| >>739167 I mean, if it works it works

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