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Gender issues do be hitting different
| You do know that the suicide rate for trannies is 50% higher than normal right
| >>737105
I don't understand what you go through, but have you tried "going with the flow"? Like, just do what you feel like doing? And if some other day, you feel like doing the exact opposite of what you did before, then do it as well?
| There is only onde gender and it's mine.
You cannot have it. *loads shotgun*
| >>737106 ok so the thing I don't understand about this statistic is why the hell this is an argument against being trans or even if it is an argument about being trans. if the suicide rate is higher doesn't that just mean we should help them more? also men commit suicide more often than women, does that mean men should stop being men? the truth seems to be it says "trans" and "suicide" in it so you like quoting it but then why don't you say "too low"? poorly thought out bait 2/10
| >>737105 does it still feel wrong in the first type of wave you mentioned? and does us saying g/u/rl make it better or worse?
| Have you considered that you may be gender fluid, I. E, not having a stable gender identity?
| >>737106 >>737128
It's almost funny how people seem to bring up trans people like this, no matter what. I never said I'm trans, because, well, I'm not.
>>737114
That's, I, do not understand. Could you elaborate on what you mean?
>>737129
Sometimes? But the first one I mentioned, when I'm content with it, that's usually when I feel genuinely okay. It can be very short periods of time though, and then, as I said, the rest of the time everything just feels very wrong.
| >>737150
Yeah, I have. I don't know too much about the topic, but I think it may be the case. I want to talk to my therapist about it and maybe get a session with someone who knows what they're talking about, but I've never gotten myself to bring it up and I don't have therapy sessions that often anymore.
| Also, I don't know if this adds any valuable information, but when when I was very young and went clothes shopping with my mom I used to ask for the cute clothes from the girl's section. She never bought it for me because she used to be a lot more close minded back then, but, yeah. I've literally had these feelings and been drawn to that kinda stuff since I was a child. Though, it bothers me a lot more now than it used to since I'm more developed and shit.
| trannies are the most annoying convo parasiting thing the left has ever invented
OP, i just want you to consider that while your body will never change genders, your identity can be as feminine or masculine as you want.
You look like whatever you feel as on the astral plane, so you're just a soul with both male and female attributes. gender is a physical thing, rooted in biological objectivity; spiritually it's more like a concept.
| >>737234
Sure. I just don't share your views I guess. I'm talking about a genuine thing that I struggle with, not spirituality or conspiracies.
| I've decided to take this up with my therapist as soon as I can. I've been avoiding talking about it even though I've been aware of the fact that I have this for a really long time now.
I was very close to mentioning it the last time I had a therapy session, but we had been talking for a while and there wasn't much left of the session so I pussied out and just, didn't, and instead just talked about basically nothing for the last part of the session.
| I really regret it, but, I think I have a session again next week. I'm gonna stop being a bitch about it and actually tell him. Preferably at the start of the session so I can get as much time as possible to talk to a professional about it.
| You need to go outside more tbh, internet is messing with your mind
| >>738034
Homie. Did you read this thread at all? I've been feeling this way since I was a child. You're the one who's gotta get outside more if you genuinely think that issues like this aren't real. Look around, talk to people, socialize. I know it's probably a new and scary thing for you, but I can guide you through it and give you some advice. Drop me your Discord if you need someone to be there for you when you try it out.
| Sounds like you may be nonbinary or gender fluid
| >>738282
I think that might be the case. I'm figuring out my feelings bit by bit, and I know someone who is very familiar with gender issues and very open about that kinda stuff, so getting support from and having a back and forth with him has helped me a lot with figuring stuff out.
I don't really care much for labels though. As long as I know what I feel like I don't need a name for it. People seem to be more accepting when you explain instead of using LGBT terms anyways.
| think so, "nonbinary" is a fancy way of saying you're a faggot and "gender fluid" is just semen.
| >>738295
Yes, you're very funny, edgy, and original.
While I don't care much about labels for personal reasons, they have a purpose. A lot of people feel a lot safer finding and using labels that fit them, as it helps reassure them that they're not alone in having those feelings and makes it easier to find people they can relate to, which is completely understandable.
If someone asks I just say that I'm a bit of a faggot, but I still have full respect for people who use labels.
| I also think that some labels are, well, good. Like gay and trans. Gay, because it's "I'm only sexually interested in the same gender" and trans because of the fact that they will more often than not want to have a surgery and go through that whole physical process etc.
For anything in-between, a lot of it is same difference. There are differences,and for some people those differences matter a lot, which is why so many labels exist, but for me personality I'm not interested in it.
| >>737563
Good for you, g/u/rl.
I hope talking to your therapist gets you set on the road to finding a way to resolve your issues and living with yourself happily.
Because there is only one person you have to be able to live with for the rest of your life, and it's you.
| >>738354
I know, I know.
Well, I do have two people that I'll never abandon, but, I get your point.
I hope it helps as well, though, he's not really specialised when it comes to that kind of stuff, so, I have no idea how much or how little he knows about it.
| >>738300
>Yes, you're very funny, edgy, and original
sounds like a computer program printing out pre-determined lines. guaranteed to be boring.
>lot of people feel a lot safer finding and using labels that fit them
and by that you mean a lot of attention whoring snowflakes.
>If someone asks I just say that I'm a bit of a faggot
... yeah, that's based.
| >>738547
>sounds like a computer program printing out pre-determined lines. guaranteed to be boring.
Says the 4chan copy-paste. I thought there might have been a slight chance that you were actually a person talking, but I guessed incorrectly, so, I won't be responding to any new replies by you. Take your bait somewhere else. Like to a nice, relaxing pond where you can use it to more efficiently catch fish while having a nice cold beer and reflecting on your life.
| >>738556
your entire reply was devoid of any substance. it's on the conversational level of "uuuh you dum dum!"
and then you call me a non-person? you proved my point.
| Shut the fuck up
| That is honestly all that people should tell you.
| Cool
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| It just comes in waves. I'll have a few days where I'm content with looking masculine and being born as the gender I was born as, and then I go right back to the constant feeling of something not being right, feeling a deep-rooted desire to be more feminine or androgynous, or sometimes just wishing that I would have been born female.
It doesn't directly hurt. It just feels wrong. Everything just feels wrong, and it's always felt that way, and it drives me crazy.