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I wan be bulied, it feels good, but is a problem
| just... enjoy.
| >>687791 I think you need to split these two things - your regular life and sexual. The best way probably is to have a partner so that you would have attachment to them and therefore wouldn't want to get pleasure from other people.
| Or you know, go get some help
| I think that's, bad. Being turned on by that isn't, it's not a choice, but being genuinely mentally and physically abused by an actually abusive cunt, well, that shit ruins your life, legit.
Finding a partner who would be willing to do stuff like that in a roleplay type of way would be ideal, but please avoid people who are actually abusive for your own safety. Keep it to fantasy.
| I'd suggest looking into the bdsm scene. While of course there are still fuckups there, it tends to be a lot more conscious about consent and boundaries than society in general. Not saying you have to participate locally, though you certainly can, but there's a lot of knowledge an a lot of it's online
Podcast related and good though not necessarily exactly what you are talking about: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1EPfl7pkUbxmo28D90ZQPB
| >>687791 it's "ok" but remembers for some your limits, and safe word.. you should respect yourself
| Idk if it's seeping into rl where there aren't any boundaries then i think it's a really bad idea. I don't think that's a fetish anymore but more of a psychological thing. It's all fun and games until you're suffocating from all the pressure aroud u ukno? There's no such thing as a safe word irl if you wanna tap out or get a break
| Thank you g/u/rls for your advice, yeah it's really hard, it's all wired in me I'm a people pleaser. I like giving more to please others (and myself too i guess), up to the point that I can't keep going, I'll implode or explode with too much pressure. I can be aware of this now when I'm in the right mind but usually I'm not.
How best to separate personal and regular life when it's so intertwined argh
| I had a problem like that when I was in like, grade 8. It might feel good temporarily but it will fuck you up in the near future. Now I have a g/u/rl and our activities make up for my horny needs. It also makes me feel disgusted to do it with somebody else since she's so special to me. Since that was what calmed me down, try to get yourself a g/u/rl too and just ask them to call you a slut :) you might be surprised by how many doms are out there who wouldn't mind asking for consent
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| Is it bad that im so sub i literally want to be bullied mentally or bein step on physically uwu, however sometimes this slips to rl subtly and i find myself with peeps tryna take advantage of me tellin me what to do, it so much pressure
Wuts ur take and any advice gurls