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| I am 23 years old and never had any kind of relationship in my life, I even never kissed.
Am I a normal person? I ask myself that question too many times...
| >>61130
I know people that old who haven't done anything either. Consider this silver lining, the older the people are the more experienced they are which means they're gonna treat you right
| I'm 21 yo and my relatives keep telling me to get married asap. Should I tell them to fuck off?
| >>61270
hardcore tell them to fuck off, most smart people get married after a multi year stable relationship which means 24-30 is the marriage range
| 16 here. Feminine face so I can crossdress pretty good, have done it for cosplay but I want to do it for prom. Principal knows about my shenanigans and told me not to or he'll ban me from coming to graduation. Should I do it anyway
| don't let anyone tell you how to dress or present yourself g/u/rl :3
| >>62037
I don't know your school environment but I can't emphasize enough you should think and plan on what other STUDENTS would think of you cross dressing. If you're going to a really hostile and conservative school, I don't think you should be asking for attention/bullying I want you to be safe. Reminder that there are typically dance clubs and conventions filled with people who would love to see you flaunt your feminine side, but maybe school isn't the right place
| >>62317
Ohohoho, trust me, the students aren't a problem in that aspect. Thank you for worrying about my safety, nevertheless, it's very sweet of you. Would like to thank the other anon as well
| 22 yes old and have 9 exes. Almost every girl of dated was pure white when I met them but somehow always have some mental baggage that gets in the way of the relationship. I'm not the type of guy to give up just because of that stuff but they always convince themselves that they are too much to handle for me. Kinda thinking I'm not doing something right here.
| >>62511
op back again
First off congratulations on 9 exes (I have 10 myself) that means you're getting out there. I have a mixed answer for you. Technically yes you could be doing something wrong, there's a chance that if someone you dated decided they did not like you, blaming themselves and saying they're "too much" is a good cop out. (I did that to a girl once and one did it to me)
Alternatively you may have bad luck and have only dated crazies.
| >>62496
Not op, if students are fine then do it. Tell the principle if he trys to stop you that you'd feel like you're being made to be someone you're not and he's that you have a right to express yourself and if he feels so strongly be should talk to your parents about your rights to express yourself. Assuming you're not dressing like a slut and are in line with female dress code
| Just FYI, I am a Greek, and I've been in an online relationship/friendship with a Swiss guy for about 3 years now. Yes, I realize that such relationships may be out of your specialty, but I could use some help. We are to travel to Japan, and we'll meet for the first time - to visit a club called MOGRA (anisons are played there, I'm not some normalfag that would visit any ordinary club) during New Year's eve.
But I am incredibly anxious about the situation. The guy is trustmworthhy
| Yet I still can't quite shake off this vague feeling of anxiety. It's the first time I'm meeting a person with whom I've shown my "true self", and I'm worried. What if he was playing the long game and he is going to fuck with me (not literally) when he sees me? I'm a 23 year old guy, and the other guy is 24. I've had some romantic experiences with girls before, but nothing quite like this before. I've invested so much time and I'm worried about getting my heart broken.
| >>63868
Love guru op here
It sounds like you have a very exciting and cute trip to Japan ready for you to enjoy! I'm jealous I really am. I don't think anyone would actually pay to fly out of country just to mess with you. The only possible gambit this is, is that he wouldn't come and leave you alone in Japan, but shit you're still in Japan just have a solo vacation. And I don't see that happening. You shared 3 years of convo, you like this guy, have fun!
| Wtf is 4chan on /u/?
that is my question
| >>63929
Thanks mate. I happen to know some japanese (just enough to make a decent conversation), so even if something does go awry, it wouldn't be fatal. Spending the Christmas and New Years' alone in a foreign country would suck, but hopefully it wouldn't come to that. If everything goes well I may come back to this thread and thank you for relieving my anxieties a bit.
I'm just prone to overworrying about things; I just need somebody to calm me down. Hope everything works out.
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| Ask me any questions you have about sex/love and I'll give you as much helpful information as I can cause I'm sure you've tried in the past and only get meme answers.