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I can no longer nut to anything that isn't wholesome.
| What I'm really wondering is if there's anyone else like me. Am I alone in my philosophy, or does this sound familiar to anyone else. Also, does anyone know of a wholesome bondage discord/reddit or something? I've been searching so long.
| Im not into bondage myself (primarily because I've never tried it) but I'm sure you can find someone in the same camp as yourself
| Wholesome bondage is actually pretty big in the bondage community, largely due to the factbthat it requires an intense trust in the other person, and that relationship needs to have strong foundations.
| >>9fbc8f Oh yeah. But, it's still a minority. Of the people with kinks, only so many talk about it. Of those, only so many are into bondage, and of those most are into master/mistress/slave, pain, or abduction/rape fantasy stuff. I've met maybe two or three people with a similar outlook.
| I began thinking of wholesome bondage when first reading sunstone. The title of this thread and the way you described it make you pretty similar to me; but I’ve never really explored it too much as a fetish. What got you into it if you don’t mind me asking?
| r/AdorableBondage is a little like this, maybe you can start there. Good luck!
| Tfw I will never be in a wholesome and loving D/s relationship with a loving but powerful domme gf
Life is not worth living tbh
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| This is complicated by my bondage fetish. Most people are of the opinion that BDSM can't be wholesome due to its nature. They can't see through the image of what popular culture presents, but it really goes so much deeper than that.
What I really want now is to give myself to someone, body and soul. Either by being tied up, or tying somebody else up. And by being there for them. Bondage to me represents complete trust and affection, not some forbidden deviant pleasure.