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First experiences with sex?
| I have never had sex. Though from what I have heard. Just take it slow and expect it to be awkward. Also make sure to listen to your partner to see what feels good and make sure you have communication. Also don't be afraid to do something weird unless it is dangerous.
| yeah, first sex is always a failure, just accept that it's normal, you'll get good with enough practice
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>>426490
These are good advice. My first time was punctuated by a little too much strangulation since I had no stop signal, but I definitely wouldn't change it.
| >>426490 i wouldn't look at it this way, the goal is just for everyone to come out happy, not to be super smooth and confident. that's definitely possible and something to avoid failing at
Seconding the importance of communicating, though it sounds like you already are. And don't be afraid to start slowly. Frankly if you're in a long term relationship you might consider sleeping together in the literal way first, if yall aren't already intimately comfortable with each other
| Actually, all you have 2 do is to make your partner feel great. Don't think of yourself.
If your partner is nice enough, they will always take care of you without asking.
| never haha :(
| Hahaha
| hahaha... yeah...
| Over 25 years old
Never had sex
Never made out
Never kissed at all
Never even held hands
...I'm so scared it's never going to happen and it hurts so bad but nothing makes it stop
| Kif! I've made it with a woman! Inform the men!
>risky lure sign
| Honestly? Just have fun. Don't be afraid to laugh and enjoy yourself
| Oh and foreplay is everything, take your time and don't rush
| >>426343 sex is overrated... see how she is with cooking... or if you like to cook, then see how she is with whatever it is that you would admire, and when you realize how much you admire her your pepe will get hard and you will jump her leg constantly. That is true love.
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| Okay g/u/rls, I finally went and did it and got myself a partner. We've been talking a lot about the topic of sex lately, kinks, limits and general spicy flirting and whatnot, but the fact of the matter is that I'm terrified that I'm gonna mess up. They're a virgin too, but still.
How was your first experience lasses? Any advice?