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In love with my bestfriend
| Right now, we're attending at different schools. We seldom meet in person but we chat often.
I'm not sure if she's seeing anyone at the moment though...
The thing is... I fell for her about two years ago when we transferred schools. It was a bit sudden for me, and I do think that whenever we meet, my nervousness gives it away
| succ her tiddies
pussy
| oh goddammit
| Okay lady/gent, so I was in a similar situation, I'd say it's worth going for, even if you get rejected you get closure, and if you don't we'll than that's great, but personally I'd try to find a good time to confess and express your feelings.
| I agree, go for it!
Get those feelings out.
| OP here.
Just went out today (to hang out). We talked about stupid stuffs as usual and then this one topic came into play: a friend of ours getting cucked by another.
She said that she did not like guys who change their feelings for others that often, then hurting someone else in the process.
I think to myself: Did I get attracted to her on the spur of a moment...? Or was it a slow development which began when we first became friends (thanks to Fairy Tail)...
| Back to the story, we continued talking about our friends and their current relationship with others. Last night, I searched up some "psychology tricks" and body languages to know if a girl was into me. The 'iris trick' was not helpful with Asian genes.
I don't want to assume based on body language and gestures, but its looking pretty bad for me.
Maybe I really am just a friend to her? The thing is... If I asked her out and got rejected, we'll be awkward.
| The whole "psychology tricks" segment that you're looking at isn't very reliable, we as humans actually have a pretty good control over our faces so it's incredibly hard to discern such things through body language, the only real way is to put yourself out there.
| go for it 2 WEEKS FROM NOW op
| >>422205 +1 placebo effect. There is always the element of the unknown... it's the existential crisis thing. Would suck to be awkward, but what kind of friend relationship are you going to have if you are in love with her and never tell her... and maybe she gets a boyfriend... not you. Better in the long run to clear it up.
| Even if you F up, you'll still be fine. g/u/r/l/s are just a little of your life.
| If you are truly good friends and this doesnt work out, then you two will get through this and continue to be friends after. Just dont do anything too cringy.just be like:
"Hey, I am cool with just being friends, but I have to get this out there...I have liked you for the last little while."
| >>422533 this exactly. i've had two friends now that i was on each end of the feelings for. one i met at an anime convention around 2 or 3 years ago and we became fast friends bc of similar interests and i had a crush on her from the start but those feelings developed more and eventually i felt like I had to tell her. I wanted to be in a relationship with her but also greatly appreciated her friendship so when my friends told me i should tell her, I did and let her know that if she
| didn't feel the same it wouldn't be a bad thing because i liked her a ton as a friend too. she didn't reciprocate but was super chill about it and we continued being friends as usual still talking almost every day and now i consider her to be one of my best friends. she's always one of the first people to come to mind when i think "my friends."
the other case is another friend who i've known less time but am no less closer to. just about a week ago actually, he confessed to me
| that he had a crush on me but also wouldn't be upset if it didn't turn out i liked him back. i told him i didn't feel the same way but it didn't damage our friendship in the slightest, and just like with friend 1, we continue to talk just as normal and just as frequently. what I'm saying is, even if she doesn't reciprocate, that doesn't mean it's gonna be a friendship ruiner in the slightest. Trust in your friendship and just go for it, but make sure to do it at the right time.
| There are no bis here. Only g/u/rls
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| She was really nice and wholesome. A bit of a fujoshi to say the least, but that does not make her personality rotten.
It all started when we were in 7th grade. I did not find her attractive, but she was someone I got along with since we were both weabs. I was not attracted to her that time since some of my friends were into her - plus, I was interested on another girl.
She actually acted as my "wingwoman" during those days...