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High school crush
| >>526209 G/u/rl you should try and hang out more, that way you have a way into that relationship conversation
| seems like things are going your way entirely! now you could make a move or let things flow, a good example of opportunity would be to invite her overnight or for a weekend for some LAN, from how you described it, the only problem would be if neither of you makes a move.
afterwards, once things are set, (IE officially dating) don't go nuts and ruin everything over a silly move that you'd regret for the rest of your life afterwards.
Enjoy your love and life! <3
| OP here, thanks for the kind words, it means a lot, but one more thing... how does one flirt?
| >>526209 Well flirting is a bit of a difficult balancing act, it's supposed to suggest that you fancy her but with a level of "plausible deniability" that won't make you seem desperate for sex or embarrass
her.
My personal method always was to find moments where it'd be fitting to give compliments that relate to (and fit her) personality (exp. charismatic, interesting, kind). I feel compliments to personality would flatter someone more then saying she "looks good", tho both work.
| ... Not saying it worked 100%. But that's my take after a lot of rejection.
Can I just suggest a dating advice channel on YT? Dr.Nerdlove is actually has rather positive advice on a lot of this stuff and the advice he gives is based on what his girl subscribers tell him. It's a rather refreshing take and to be better with dating you should hear our a diversity of opinions (even if 99% of everything is crap)
You sound like a actual good guy, so go get her OP!
| Good luck, op.
I've always wanted cute nerdy girl, but never have had a good chance like yours.
| Thank you everyone, I actually feel pretty confident and maybe I'll ask her if she wants to hang out next Monday, just the two of us.
| (oof forgot to with it but op here)
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| So I've got a crush on this girl right, she's into the same videogames as I am, I bought a $6 game that I could play for her and now she's getting a $16 game that I recommended for her (I'm a total nerd so this means a lot). She's really cute and is into anime and the aforementioned videogames, she's also really cute, she wears glasses and hoodies a lot, is generally introverted and a bit shy, she's also just fun to be around.(Sorry for the late post but more posts need to be up).