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How to politely reject someone?

| I'm a french student doing a summer job in Japan for 2 months and I recently met a Chinese business man (business partner of my boss) . We had a good talk and I thought he could be a good contact when I will go to China for my study.
However, after exchanging our WeChat ID, he send me heart and embarrassing message. I'm almost sure he's gay and into me, but it's not mutual.
How can I politely say "no"?


| it's better to be straightforward with these kind of things, because trying to sugarcoat it will only make things end up worse. what i'd probably do is send him a message that says something along the lines of "i'm sorry, but i'm not interested in a relationship right now" or "i have to turn you down, i'm sorry." those seem like the best approaches


| Say
Johnny be nimble
Johnny be quick
Johnny has refused you as the whore who suck his dick


| Did he outright say he's into you, or are you just deciding that you're all that?


| >>398488

^

This is your best bet, OP. Good luck!


| >>398488 This really is the most polite way to turn someone down.

I asked a girl out and she told me no. But she also said I was still cool anyway. Didn't make a big deal out of it, I just accepted it and worried about more important things.


| I see. At first, because he invited me to Beijing , I was just thinking about tellg him " I'm sorry but I can't join you in Beijing" ( which is true because I also don't have the money for it) , so maybe I will be straightforward of he insists after that .

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