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Long distance

| So uh, this probably isn't the best place to post something like this but, there's this girl who lives in Canada that I like and she likes me, problem is the distance (I live in NYC) and we wouldn't be able to visit eachother regularly. I'm not sure if I should go for it or even how I would, especially in the field of convincing her, on top of that this would be her first relationship, hence my seeking advice in of all chats, of course I chose /d/ because why the hell not, thanks.


| She doesn't, and she's a dude using a girls pics. Forget her and go local.


| /d/ is not the best place for advice on this
about 85% of posters haven't been in a relationship


| That depends. What part of Canada does she live in? Seeing as you live in NY it's more or less a hop and a skip from the border so at least you don't have to go far to visit.


| >I'm not sure if I should go for it
Just do it. It's ok if you like each other. If you feel too much restricted by it, offer her a open relationship or break up. If your relationship goes longer than one year, you maybe should think about moving closer to each other (I'd prefer Canada).
>the field of convincing her
Pls. forget about this "convincing" stuff. It's bad for any kind of relation.
>her first relationship
Let's be realistic: It probably won't be her last one.


| Op here, I've actually met up with her in Canada's wonderland and gone on lots of rollercoasters and stuff, thanks for the advice and all, we've actually talked about getting into a relationship but she doesn't want to deprive me of the typical relationship experience to have a ldr and she lives around ontario

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