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Yo G/u/rls i need an advice
| Im 5'4' even though im a male
| Unsure. I think that everybody experiences it differently. Figure out why you want to do this. Is it because you're curious and think it'll be fun, or sone other motive? Because you enjoy pain? Because you like to be degraded/controlled? Or is it because you like it when they make you feel good, and comfort/reassure you instead? There are as many ways to do S&M as there are practitioners, and there's no wrong way to do it as long as you take care not to cause permanent injury.
| >>375946i think that is because i enjoy pain, being teased, humiliated and the feeling of comfort that being dominated can bring to me.
| >>a8beb9 The usual answer is on fetlife or some kinky Reddit.
If you know why you're doing what you're looking for, then what I would suggest is setting well defined boundaries with your dom and communicating well with them. Before/during/after/whenever. Communicate what you like, what you don't like, and then have a good time of it.
Also notable is that if you feel a sharp pain or numbness, tell your dom immediately. Pain can be sexy, but that doesn't extend to nerve damage.
| >>648b8f you know, what i like the most is the feeling of comfort and reassure you can have while being dominated, it just fulfills me somehow, and yeah i definitely wont like serious damage nor pain.
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| What can i do to be a better sub, cuz i don't have like any experience but i feel interested in being one