Post number #304383, ID: 66068f
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My boi is so vanilla that I'm afraid to try most of the things I want to try because he just finds them unappealing. (´• ω •`) Nekomimi? Bondage tape? Maple syrup? Food-grade glitter? General lighthearted sensation play? I'm not specifically into any of these but they seem like fun to try... Has anyone here faced a similar problem? What did you do?
Post number #304390, ID: 5ce3a9
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I broke up and got a more kinky companion! <3
Post number #304423, ID: d1b01d
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>>304390 begone thot
Post number #304489, ID: 1bf268
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Two ways to go about it.
1. The ethical way: openly express your kinks and desires with him in a nonjudgmental way, while understanding he may not be into all the things you are.
2. The unethical way: slowly introduce small portions of your kinks into love making, indoctrinating him to your desires over time with now regard for his own free will until he's your personal mindless lust slave.
Post number #304748, ID: c48ae3
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>>304489 Ahaha, the second one sounds like something that only works in doujins.
I tried discussing kinks with him (he's into nibbling!), but honestly I just want to try these things for their own sake, for fun, even on a platonic basis. But somehow even he doesn't believe me when I say that... (´• ω •`) Am I too weird? Maybe I'm too weird. Send help
Post number #304821, ID: 31e034
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Choose a kink and then change his PC/Phone wallpaper to something slightly related to that kink. Send him links to pic/vid/game/anime that has that kink and ask him to watch/play/read it. Bring it up in your conversation once in a while. Start with something subtle, then gradually move up to the hardcore stuff. If he start complaining about it, change the kink and start over until you find something that he like/okay with.
Post number #305672, ID: d4d551
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>>304748 number 2 works, esp. if you two drink. you can pull some stuff out while drunk like, confess you've been "curious" about something and it'll go from there
Post number #305683, ID: 9da500
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Talk to him and pick a day to try it in advance
Post number #305926, ID: 8a9655
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Well my bf (were both boys) used to be so vanilla... He obviously looks like an S type person and I would love for him to push me... but he wouldn't, so I got sick of it and one day I got drunk to the point that I pushed him down and for took him all in all night till he was dry... He got so into to it after and did it to me later, maybe this is the solution to your problem?
Post number #306571, ID: 2122eb
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My boi is so vanilla (and a gentleman) that he refuses to do anything to a drunk young lady, even me lol But maybe if we settle in with each other a bit more, that'll be possible? Not sure how *me* being drunk is supposed to help tbh
Post number #306583, ID: bba4ec
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>>306571 marry that boi
Post number #306969, ID: 2122eb
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>>306583 Haha. Neither of us is really into the concept of marriage, but we do expect to always be important to each other ♡
Post number #308291, ID: 0ad824
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Who wouldn't want maple syrup
Post number #308329, ID: 6db099
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pussy with maple syrup anyone ?
Post number #308337, ID: 92011a
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Stop being a fetishist and let that pure man go untoched.
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| My boi is so vanilla that I'm afraid to try most of the things I want to try because he just finds them unappealing. (´• ω •`) Nekomimi? Bondage tape? Maple syrup? Food-grade glitter? General lighthearted sensation play? I'm not specifically into any of these but they seem like fun to try...
Has anyone here faced a similar problem? What did you do?