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Subtle ways of letting people know I'm gay
| grindr
| Why would you need to be subtle about it?
| If it was me, I'd probably just say it. Do you have family that's homophobic or something?
| >>ac590a I know the feeling. What I did was. First, wear unisex clothes that are slightly on the girl side (If they ask, just tell them you're parents/friends told you that you look hot on those clothes). Second, drop vague hints. Like, "guy's looks nice on those clothes." (prepare to deny vaguely too).
| And lastly, stay close to the guy you're aiming for. Don't be too annoying, but be as helpful as you can to the point where he can't live without you. Then suddenly leave him for the day and see him starting to miss you. Author stage he should be starting to question his sexuality,
| that's when you start to flirt with him, but at the same time being vague making him think his the only one being gay here. Once the perfect time comes. Invite him to your house, where you're parents aren't home. Watch him get flustered, spike his drinks, then strike for the opportunity
| >>9e5795 honestly, my friend suggested me to do this when I was on the same spot, and I was really against the spike thing too... But it gave positive results, my boyfriend dosen't even consider it rape when I did it to him...
| Jump down and say some gay shiy
| pls no spiking getting drunk and flustered is enough as it is
| say that you like dick
| As a gay person myself, I never came out. I was just always the gay friend. Your best attempt would be to not come out and just be gay.
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| Do people at where you live judge you for being gay? I mean, I was in Debates from where I live, and given that people in there are more liberal and open minded a lot of debaters stepped out and were open about it. I don't know if it's called a "gaydar" or not, but somehow people just... act as they are, you know? There's a certain demeanour so to say that it's hard to explain. Tldr, be who you are, build trust and be close friends with whomever you're aiming for, and (cont)
| >>258775 eventually trust said friend with information. That's how most people I know who are gay opened up to people. Including me, that is.
| >>258714
Wtf? Be gay, but never come out? So you're just going to live your life without no lover or anything, ever? That's just dumb.
| Speak with a gay lisp.
| All of these suggestions are about as subtle as carpet bombing someone's bedroom.
| Why would it need to be subtle?
| >>c72297 why should gay people have to come out? If you like some one flirt with them. You just have to be gay. No point in making a big deal, isn't that what equality is all about? What if every straight person came out as straight?
| >>259788
Coming out and making a big fuss about it is different things. Coming out as gay just means that people know you're gay. If you just say to your friend "I'm gay", that's coming out.
| I have like three different ID's in this thread.
| First of all fuck spiking drinks?? Like wth guys.
And second I'm gay and I think a good way to go about it would be to deny interest in the opposite sex. Like "I don't really like men much" And stuff like that. If your timing is right it doesn't sound forced and is a easier way to say I'm gay
| I don't really see the problem here, like, at all. I'm probably too straight or something.
| Just flirt and anyone who isn't an emotionally stunted retard who's comfortable with their sexuality will either respond in kind if they think you're cute or politely decline; work on your gaydar a bit
| I say I'm gay around 500 times per day and the people around me think it's just my thing to say it all the time. Jokes I'm them I'm actually gay.
| Fuck them in the ass while saying minion jokes
| Because it helps to convey the fact that you're gay
| >>260872 you seem to misunderstand. The thread is about subtley letting people know she's gay, not subtley letting people know she's a facebook grandma.
| Ok suck yo homies dicc. It will surely get the point across
| Just come out and say that you’re gay, in reality most people don’t care what you want to fuck, and if they give you shit for being gay they weren’t even worth keep a relationship in the first place
| >>261080
In reality in most countries it's forbidden to be or at least to proclaim that you are gay.
E.g. here in Russia you get arrested for "gay propaganda".
| >>d5d82a
This happened to me, well kinda. One night a friend of mine showed up with some MAMA and we took it, this was the first time I'd had anything like that so I was really out of it, before I knew it he came out to me and soon his hands were all over me. It felt really good so I just let him.
| I'm concluding from this thread that gay people are all just rapists.
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| So I'm not exactly flamboyant, but I want a way of letting people know I'm into dudes so guys will fucking ask me out, what's a subtle way of doing this without wearing rainbows and making drag race quotes while listening to awful pop music?
Bonus points if straight people won't understand the message.