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Does anyone else think having a stalker gf would be great
| It doesn't matter if they are fugly and boring to talk to, as long as they are always in my pocket, amirite?
| >>213882 everyone thinks itll be a great thing but in reality this kind of relationships arent cute or quirky like in anime, most of this relationships are abusive and really toxic
| No, don't stick it in crazy
| OK here's my logic
If someone really did love me they would do anything to have me
| And that's why stalker gfs are the best
| >>213976 also if a stalker loved me for who I am she wouldn't want to change anything about me at all
| But would you enjoy it at that point?
| UwU me too
| Ah, yeah I guess so
| This thread is relevant to my interests because I have a chronic stalker problem.
By which I mean when I get a crush on someone I start getting all stalkery. Also mood swings, violent thoughts...
| >>215908 too bad, I have a cute boi I like ♡ but I wanted to see what people might or might not enjoy about this behaviour and try to adjust accordingly.
| >>215908 too bad, I have a cute boi I like ♡ but I wanted to see what people might or might not enjoy about this behaviour and try to adjust accordingly.
| Pls no.
| a short tomboy gf would be good too
| Maybe a short tomboy stalker gf
| I have a stalker neighbor girl.
| Stalk*
| Just me. She's pretty cool though.
| Imagine a stalker couple trying to stalk eachother,no
| Y'all are stupid
| You all are idiots. Stalker will make your lives living hell. Repeated calls will make you loose minds and constant streams of messages will make you loose your interest in girls.
Or what do i know?! Im into traps!
| Stalking depends on the level of course shows interest and insecurity, I don't know, maybe it is some sorta of a twisted way to show love or something? And usually there is some sort of a social pressure on men to show the iniciative and take the hold of things, maybe a girl doing this kind of thing is a way to aliviate that too?
| Traps are for delusional gay losers
| >>218840
>People have a different fetish than me
>You all are stupid
Which third world country are you from?
| If your fetish is getting followed and harassed then yes you're stupid
| OP, what would be the level of stalking that you would find acceptable ?
| >>219254 as long as she/he doesn't kill or threaten anyone, anything past that point is a big no no
| I just basically want my stalker to be obsessed with me and know my every location
| Seems to me like you're searching for a very caring person, not necessarily a stalker, is it ? I mean, should your partner be able to find you anywhere you go, or would you just keep yourself close to them, so that you're always close together ?
| >>219292 don't worry about it. But to clear things up I want to say that the kind of stalker gf/bf I imagine is the kind that would take pictures of you and put them up on their wall, the kind of stalker that would cling onto you arm and glare at other women, the kind of stalker that would call you every hour of the day etc.
| Do yeah
| So*
| I hope that isn't too weird
| Ok I think I get it now. Are you implying you would know about this person being a stalker, and their taking photos of you undercover ?
| Because I don't see anything wrong with your bf/gf taking pictures of you and following you, and texting you... All the more if that's the kind of relationship you want... I kinda feel like you're prepared for this ^^.
| >>219321
I didn't want to bring this up at first because I thought it was very unlikely, but I don't think it's that unlikely now...
What about more than one stalker? Aren't you afraid they'd hurt each other?
And also, isn't it depressing if you never get to see the stalker(s) because they're just too good at hiding/ too shy... ? (I find this quite depressing). If you go out of your way to find your stalker(s), are you not breaking their hearts by becoming the one to find them?
| (Sry I can't help replying seriously... I find this thread to be so interesting!)
| I'm surprised that this thread had survived for this long
| >>219369 tbh I don't really know how to answer that question but tbh If I had more than one stalker (which I doubt will ever happen) I would probably only find out about one of them and also I would doubt that they would know about each other
| Also I don't think that if I go out of my way to meet my stalker(s) that it would break their heart(s)
| Also I would assume that the stalker would make the first move in trying to get into a relationship if I didn't know about them, if I did know about them I would make the first move
| Seems like your stalker should be a sane person, apart from the fact that they're basically obsessed with you...
I find it less like stalking, and more like a (possessive?) secret admirer with a touch of compulsive jealousy... Which is maybe somewhat cute.
In that case they might go out of their way to meet you.
That's a really convenient stalker!
| I kinda fear getting stalked, so I can't agree with you.
But the thought of someone knowing of everything you do, say and think, and loving you for this, kinda makes me wonder if I'm mentally challenged... Depends what love is for you, I guess...
| I'd rather you find a telepath lover than a stalker, or just someone that got to know you really well. It's probably just that unlikely... but it kinda throws me off less than the stalking thing...
| Just because you don't think getting stalked is a good thing doesn't mean you're mentally challenged I know for a fact that many people will call me weird and crazy for wanting a stalker gf but that just because they have different viewpoints and opinions and also just because I want a stalker gf doesn't mean I push other g/u/rls and g/u/ys away from me
| I have interest in other people who I actually know and love even, it's just that I think having a stalker gf would be nice is all
| You know what?
Fuck it.
If I could make my stalker gf happy, then why the fuck not... That would make one more happy person on the planet.
| No
| Stalker-chan from above here, this thread has been interesting. My boi isn't into photos, but I want to try clinging to him and acting jealous as cutely as I can♡
One thing I want to say is that being the kind of person who'd be a stalker is... painful. There used to be other things that were important to me, but now I can't remember what they were... so when he's out of reach, I can't do anything but miss him.
So if you get yourself a stalker-chan, be sure to look after her, OK? ☆
| Ok
| I know how hard it is to deal with social anxiety. Now, I don't wanna say I necessarily want someone to search for my stash of downloaded porn to know what I am into or make my social life hell. But if I met a person who did those things I would understand and try to ensure her she doesn't do stuff I don't want.
Basically full Yandere is a big No-No for everyone,right? Spying to learn what gift you would like. Sure! Sending rape threats to the girl that sits next to you? BIG NOPE!
| >>2af29a agreed, don't send rape threats, it will just make them suspicious of you, or they'll just call the police.
Just rape them and bring them to your dungeon
| Hey there! Guess I missed this thread. Stalker-anon here and the girl I openly stalked for four months and I have been dating officially for almost three months now. We live together and we're going great so far! As long as the stalking is respectful, I'm here to say that it works!
| I will once again say that I'm surprised with how many comments this thread has tbh it fills me with joy
| this is sick af
| Omg... I had a Stalker gf and it was exhausting. A relationship should be built on trust not stalking. Stalking is a psychological problem and it doesn't stop with stalking. When you have no private life outside the relationship.. Ok. (but what should she be stalking?) otherwise it's toxic. As romantic as you think it is. This girl has issues and you have to deal with them properly. It could get worse anytime.
| >>235333 i'm pretty sure we've established in previous comments that i don't want a stalker gf that is crazy and even then you talk about stalking like it's a bad thing when in actuality it can be pretty innocent (but it usually depends on the type of person that is stalking you)
| Yandere-chan is my waifu
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| I do and I'll do anything to get one